ok guys, in desperate need of help here. Might be a little long so bear with me.

Basically, I unfroze her and talked to her, since it wasn't going to help that I'm going to see her in 2 days for a 4-day long concert anyway. She's also coming over to pick up some of her stuff from my place.

We got to talking a little about how we degenerated from a proper friendship (with benefits) to just only about sex and loveydovey stuff. The drama and emotional shitstorm we stirred up didn't help things either. She did say that even though the sex was great, she misses the things we used to do like impromptu trips and just having fun (other than sex) in general.

She's coming over tomorrow, and it might be a make-or-break deal for me. She is an amazing girl, and I would ideally want to keep her if I can and not next her, because I feel a bond between us. Any suggestions as to what to do/say would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

why?
dont talk about that kinda stuff, your asking her to remember why she hates you.
Also your making a big deal of it (it doesn't matter if it is a big deal or not) you dont make things a big deal. Its not a big deal if i touch a girl, if i make it one i wouldn't touch another girl again.
Back from my rant lol - start it over, do kino, escalation, and finish it! Dont talk about the past, unless its good like a DHV story. Act like nothing is wrong and she wants to f- you but is playing hard to get

well she was the one who mentioned the degeneration. i just asked her what she missed about us, just to hopefully evoke some good memories about us roadtripping and having random late night conversations. AFC move? probably :/

she's going to be here with her dad, so i don't think i can f-close. probably k-close though.