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PostPosted: Fri Jul 29, 2011 2:10 pm 
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Hello peers,

I struggled with a bitchy girl this evening, I was hoping for some guidance as to where I went wrong. Thanks in advance.

The interaction went like this:

I approached spontaneously, and asked if they would date a guy that was still friends with his ex, etc.

I rooted the opener and used a time constraint. The girls loved it and everything was going smoothly.

When that was exhausted, I asked them how they knew each other, how long, etc, and went into the best friends test.

This is when things started to go wrong. The more aggresive of the two started to say who the fuck are you, why are you asking us questions like this? Are you trying to pick up two strange girls or something?

I tried to inject some humour, and even pulled out the big guns to try and save the situation; I said I was gay so I wasnt even interested in her.

Too late though, she grabbed her friend and they marched off.

I don't want to blame this on her being a bitch, what could have I done differently? Thoughts?

Cheers guys.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 29, 2011 3:00 pm 
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i would say something like this: "no, i am just a nice and friendly person, unlike you" and then eject

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 29, 2011 3:29 pm 
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watch the series http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9yhNi5OU8FY (why didnt any1 tell me about this video sooner?)
Based on that when she said "Are you trying to pick up two strange girls or something? " ida been like "no just one, are you auditioning?" and when she says no (i dont EXPECT a yes lol) say "ok i like the fiesty ones more anyways" - its obvious how that woulda gone (much better) (watch the video series ^)


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I think the girl hinted to why things went wrong.

Too many questions. Try leaving attraction mode sooner, and start comfort sooner. See how that goes then post a reply. Maybe if you're in the mall say (after introduction), "Hey...I lost my buddy somewhere between JCPenny and Spencers...I'm setting up a search party, If we find him we're going to play Good Cop, Bad Cop. You can be the Bad cops. And once we find him you can only call me by my Detective name Officer Dick Gumshoe."

By doing this you've opened up a window of time for yourself, and you've created a sort of game for the target. And if it's one thing I've realized about fun loving, confident women is that they love this sort of shit.

If that don't work, then I'd suggest trying to train your eye for better targets. If a girl is already in mid-conversation with someone...then pass them by.

Of course thats during day game. Night game I don't care if I interupt her talking to the bar maid for a drink. Things done in a club are acceptable, while the exact same thing is unacceptable during day game.

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Hate to break it to you, but sometimes women are just bitches. Or PMS-ing. You can't guess either from either.

Now, when she was being like that, you could've put her in her place, "Nothing is happening. We are just talking. Don't get ideas."

That would've shut her up for good.

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