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PostPosted: Fri Jul 22, 2011 10:13 pm 
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i was testing some material i came up with on this one girl.. anyways heres how it went down.

me: if i texted you to say "hi"... would you still try to sell me triple bronzer?
her: hahahaha whaaat?
me: youve always been a pushy salesperson... pretty sure you could sale ice to an eskimo... and by "sale" i mean make him buy.
her: hahaha i am not! I'm just a good sales woman :P
me: Suree sure (thats why they fired you)
her: they begged me to stay :P
me: rite, was that before or after you tried to sale the eskimo man a slab of ice? P.s. can you keep a secret?
her: Oh shush, and yes i can :)
you: are you sure? can i trust you? wanna hear a secret?
her: yeap
me: im planning to throw my cat a surprise birthday party. hes got cat friends who he plays with, but they cant really play along with the surprise cuz theyre not human, so i need help organizing :)
her: ahahahahahhahaha! i just died! I'll help youuuu
me: awesome! im going shopping soon, could use your extensive fashion knowledge... just heard guess got their fall collection of cat accesories.
her: hahahahahahha that made my day, okay sir :)
NEXT DAY
me: heya shawty, they gave the weekend off at the bowling alley (callback humor), so lets be spontaneous & meet up weekend.. deal?
NO RESPONSE TILL NEXT MORNING
her: ahaha sorry i replied so late! hows the planning going?
me: im sorry who is this?
her: [her name]
me: im just teasing kiddo, even tho youre the 2nd slowest person after the legless tortoise, its all good, i just checked my phone
her: ahaha i was like um...ouch? haha
me: now that we're back on speaking terms, come shop(lift)ing sat. else we're breaking up for real! & im not taking u back this time

NO RESPONSE..... ive dealt with flakes before, but that was earlier.. wheres the flaw in my game? i thought i ran solid txt (although im still waiting for a response)... that said whats the best thing to do in this sitch?

helpp? :)
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If she doesn't reply soon, she is just not that into you.

It is not just the textmessage, it is the whole game! You should tighter up the game, more challenging. And be careful of the friendzone!
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just stopped by to say i LOLed at the cat birthday stuff, really good, props on that
(wondering how it would go when said face-2-face, might try sometime) :)
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you went to direct, she seems a bit shy thou so tighen up your until she shows you more that shes interested in you
so far uve got cocky comedy going great and all but dont forget the friend tone so keep mentioning the friend thing and she will respond trust me

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overall, not so bad. perhaps a little rough around the edges, but you definitely get the idea: fun, playful conversation.

as others have suggested, maybe you went too direct too early. if you met once and this is your first text interaction, then she's probably just not comfortable enough with you yet to meet. just continue to be fun and playful, but also mix in some comfort stuff. i noticed you didnt really do that in the conversation you posted. it was all just fun and games.

the humor is good, but you also wanna transition off of it into actual conversation at some point (not that you're going to run tons of comfort through text messages, but you can usually do more than enough to get her to meet).

i am kinda curious as to what time you texted her the next day. if it was like 930 at night or later, then it's understandable that she didnt respond until the next day. but if it was like 3 in the afternoon, then that's probably not a good sign for you. no girl goes that long without checking their phone.
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I feel like you might have over-gamed her.There are so many cocky/funny lines one after the other that it kind of seem like you're trying really hard. I'd back off for a while and then try one more time to see if she hooks.
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amazing advice guys! she actually ended up responding a few hours later with:

her: Ahaha shop(lift)ing. its a crook relationship?
me: yes. do you want to be the shooter or the getaway driver
her: getaway driver, i can only drive a bike but thats ok.

i havent responded yet, and i figure i'll take the advice and tone down on the cockiness, (although this girl is really hot, so i figured the more negging - the better :D ) @ ItsAlwaysOn, you're dead on actually i sent the msg at exactly 930pm...

I feel its that exactly, i think it does come down to the comfort --everytime i hint at meeting up, she seems to go into silence for a bit and then sends out something almost unrelated... anyhow, is it possible to build comfort over text? i always felt that was best done in person... how can i salvage this and turn it into a day2?

thanks again for the advice! keep it coming :D
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I agree with one of the above posters. People who try too hard or game too hard in texting tend to come across as pushy and desperate. The key of texting is to keep you on her mind and make it as ambiguous as possible.

What has always worked for me is to send a few very casual texts and slowly escalate. And by slowly I mean going from "Hey i just saw*** and It reminded me of what you told me the other night" to "I'm bored.. tell me whats good on a friday night" to...

Whenever you tell a girl she is being slow, she will feel pressured to reply. People only do things and genuinely enjoy them when they do it from inner will.

At some point in the conversation, read he texts and reply a few hours later with a charismatic text but not pushy. Spacing the texts and sometimes replying right away can make her wonder.

Either way, texting should not be the main tool in picking up. Only a method to arrange a face to face meeting as some members here put it. Save your game for the talking, but intrigue her enough for her to want to meet up with you.

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I think ItsAlwaysOn had a great point, you have some really clever and funny lines but its a bit too much, for me it was overboard but it might work with your personality and i dont know the girl so it is hard to say for sure. i dont think that negging a girl bc she is hot is the right mentality. Having fun and being playful is good, however, value judgement is not a characteristic of a person with high value. The individual with the most power in any situation is the individual who cares the least about value altogether. When you surpass the need to even consider value then you have true power.

That being said, there is a simple logistical solution to your problem. Meeting a girl, getting her number, and trying to make a day two through phone game is not the ideal situation to be in. To completely lock down a day 2 and guarantee a future meet up you need to seed the day two as soon as you decide that this is the kind of girl you would like to continue interacting with. As soon as you decide you like her, find something that you both like, or bring up something that you plan on doing in the next week, and suggest the day 2 right then and there. then the number becomes simply and after thought. i love the way Psych put it; if you want to have really solid game, set up the day two, dont get her number, and just see if she shows. phone game problem fucking solved haha. hope this helps, peace.

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She thinks that she is gaming you so it's all good. The fact that she takes that long to respond is because she is playing hard to get, just return the favor and wait a while too maybe even a day or don't respond at all and return a text the other day about something else.
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i was testing some material i came up with on this one girl.. anyways heres how it went down.

me: if i texted you to say "hi"... would you still try to sell me triple bronzer?
her: hahahaha whaaat?
me: youve always been a pushy salesperson... pretty sure you could sale ice to an eskimo... and by "sale" i mean make him buy.
her: hahaha i am not! I'm just a good sales woman :P
me: Suree sure (thats why they fired you)
her: they begged me to stay :P
me: rite, was that before or after you tried to sale the eskimo man a slab of ice? P.s. can you keep a secret?
her: Oh shush, and yes i can :)
you: are you sure? can i trust you? wanna hear a secret?
her: yeap
me: im planning to throw my cat a surprise birthday party. hes got cat friends who he plays with, but they cant really play along with the surprise cuz theyre not human, so i need help organizing :)
her: ahahahahahhahaha! i just died! I'll help youuuu
me: awesome! im going shopping soon, could use your extensive fashion knowledge... just heard guess got their fall collection of cat accesories.
her: hahahahahahha that made my day, okay sir :)
(should have been more direct on meetup after that seed went well, next time you see this laughing shit though you might want to do a takeaway, some girls get in this OH YA HAHAHAA, OR LOL shit after every text, you throw out witty lines, they keep low investment and just answer with LOL, YAH, HAHHAHAHAHA, just call them out, *well i would like to keep chatting but i feel like i could probably have a convo with myself at this point, ill just text myself HAHAHA AND LOL, anyways ill text you sometime later* after the takeaway they will be likely to either invest or at least show true disinterest instead of fake interest)
NEXT DAY
me: heya shawty, they gave the weekend off at the bowling alley (callback humor), so lets be spontaneous & meet up weekend.. deal?
(you didn't actually lead her into meet previous day, just alluded to it and fucked around, today she flakes, this would have deserved a freeze out IMO)
NO RESPONSE TILL NEXT MORNING
her: ahaha sorry i replied so late! hows the planning going?
me: im sorry who is this?
her: [her name]
me: im just teasing kiddo, even tho youre the 2nd slowest person after the legless tortoise, its all good, i just checked my phone
(should not have done this shit IMO, should have just stuck with who is this? you need to demonstrate that she is losing your attention for showing disinterest, need to be more of a challenge, this convo should have conveyed indifference, rather then interest on your part, let her chase you a bit, at this point your just telegraphing interest that has not been reciprocated, you just sit there entertaining her, while she just goes, ahahahaa, and lol, and yah! hahaha)
her: ahaha i was like um...ouch? haha
me: now that we're back on speaking terms, come shop(lift)ing sat. else we're breaking up for real! & im not taking u back this time
(2nd flake this time for sure needs freeze out)
NO RESPONSE..... ive dealt with flakes before, but that was earlier.. wheres the flaw in my game? i thought i ran solid txt (although im still waiting for a response)... that said whats the best thing to do in this sitch?

helpp? :)
you need to get her to invest in your conversations, if your not comfortable risking take-aways, call her in person so she can't do this LOL HAHAHA shit to you, be more direct with your invites to go out, don't allude to you want her to come along but won't ask, that is what girls do, if you lead in with a seed like that (the cat needs help) she shows interest, right then and there, just say, IM GOING XYZ LOCATION, I WANT YOU TO COME, she flakes, freeze out, she contacts you be indifferent (not negative there is a difference, but if she contacts it is her turn to show some interest and invest to win you, not your turn to entertain her and be her dancing clown)
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