Okayyy! So i got into the game by actually reading The Game by Neil Strauss, which my dad recommended to me. I am a nineteen y/o college student from Chicago, IL. Every night that I go out and socialize with women, I am increasingly becoming more obsessed with my performance. I would like to share my field report with you from last night. Enjoy!

Field Report:

So my buddy calls me up and asks me to wing him at this one party that he was invited too. The party was at a girl named Amy's house. He knew everyone at the party so I had an easy way in to conversations. He also had been talking to one of the girls there for about 6 months now. The girl he was talking to had a cute Korean friend named Amy. BTW never hooked up with an asian before! Anyhow we played beer pong and got pretty smashheedd! As the night progressed, I began to banter her and tease her endlessly. The party began to clear out and we had already planned to sleep over because we could not drink and drive. So there we were the four of us in Amy's basement. Angelo was already making out with his girl i the corner. So i decided ok this is it! She was sitting on a chair so I began some fluffy convo and asked her to sit on my lap. BTW i had already known she wanted me at this point because of an IoI she had given me earlier by squeezing my hand back during a game of BP. Amy sat on my lap and I asked her to take a picture with me. We took a picture and of course I said that I did not like it. I asked her to kiss me on the cheek for the next picture and she complied. Again I said do it one more time. She did it again, however, this time right before I took the picture I turned and kissed her on the lips. SCORED! This was my best kiss-close ever! So we made out for a while and moved to her couch. (This is where i think i fucked up! ) Angelo and his girl were no where to be found so i decided to push things further. I started feeling her titties and ass. I even went under her bra and felt them!!! But then I moved down toward her pussy and obviously got rejected. We continued to kiss and thought we heard someone coming so we stopped. One of her guy friends came over so now there were five of us. I was sooo pissed at this point because i wanted to continue kissing her. He finally left and I isolated her again and asked her to cuddle with me. She didnt want to cuddle or kiss for the rest of the night. What do you think I did wrong????! Do you think I moved to fast on the couch??? I also put my number in her phone as "Sexyy ass dudeee" and texted myself from her phone....should i wait to text her?? Please feel free to critique, offer advice, etc. Thank in advance!

Hey Prodigyy, interesting post dude I have a thing for asians too (I want to land myself a hot asian someday it's a big fantasy of mine, anime does that to you haha)

Anyway...I have got some plausible answers for you as to why you got rejected man.

I'm going to jump right to it. In terms of attracting here you did a push and pull on her so that you seemed interested but not too interested as to that you wouldnt seem too needy like a puppy in order to get her attention and later get with her, like, you would get with her but on you're terms and when you're ready. Next, you got enough attraction and complience from her so that you were able to make out with her and feel her breasts and ass (nicely done). The part where you fucked I can give you a good answer. When you moved her to the couch and you wanted to touch her pussy, she rejected you, why? You did not build up enough attraction and you didn't sexually escalate sooner. That is key man!

You were lucky to get away with feeling her up! How attracted and interested was she in you when you two where conversing? Was she touching you're hand or any parts of you whilst in her company (Kino)? The main thing is that if you don't get enough physical compliance or enough IOI's from a girl you will probably and most of the time at the end, fail. Plain and simple. You moved WAY too fast onto the couch in my view you gotta work on that. She didn't want to cuddle or kiss anymore because she had lost interest or wasn't attracted anymore, or maybe she was also disappointed? Finally, never, never EVER EVER, come off as needy to a girl. Never. You must make the girl chase after you and gain your affection, if you can do that then that will get you the attraction you want. You came off as pretty needy at the end when you put you're name as "Sexyy ass dudeee" in her phone, that coming off as needy, pushy, sexual, egotistic and just...lame. You also texted yourself from her phone?? Oh my golly A piece of advice never text yourself from her phone, you didnt even give her a choice in the matter. What you should have done was, when you put her digits in her phone, you should have sent her a text message like after 2 minutes of leaving her saying "Tonight was fun! By the way, who do you think would win in a fight, a Smirf or a drunk kitten?" I know thats sounds silly but that eases some tention on any impending situation and plus it shows you have a funny playful side of yourself, also, it will also remind her of the good time spent with her and she'll get the feeling that she felt from that night when she reads that silly message. If you texted or called her after a couple of days it would have been a little awkward and the attraction would have gone away a little. If she answers the last part first you did good. If you just sent her a message just plain and boring and needy then she may distance herself from you and that may become awkward, we dont want that.

Hope that helps man!

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Wowww thanks for the nice post man!

As i reflected back on it, I realized that I acted WAY too needy during the second isolation. I kept pushing and probably made her feel uncomfortable. The next morning she seemed fine though, we even made breakfast together for the four of us. It kinda sucks because she was a really cool girl that I would wifey up. I waited two days to text her, which was probably a horrible move considering how badly I played the game later on. Also do you think she had buyer's remorse?? She didn't want to be to easy?? I also forgot to mention I had two hickeys that nightttt!! Everyone at the party noticed and it became a little joke at the party that i got hit by golf balls. But anyways she hasn't responded to my friendly text and its been two days. I will most likely be seeing her again in the future because im transferring to Angelo's college in which she attends and is best friends with Angelo's girl. I have one-itis for this girl!!! And she's only an HB7!! I have also kiss-closed 3 girls in one week!! Could've been four if I let this HB6 come over. Any recommendations on how to get her talking to me again?? I don't want to text her twice and come off as thirsty.

And one more thing... i think this might have been a non-verbal shit test to see if all i wanted was sex! I failed!

Yeah man 2 days is a bit long because if you do text or call after the attraction is gone than she wont be able to associate those same feelings as she had for as before, texting her really early allows you to re-initiate a good vibe with her and show her that you were into her but you dont come off as needy, just play it cool. What you should have done was when you gave her your digits, after 2minutes or as soon as you leave send her this message "Had fun! By the way who do you think would win a fight, a smirf or a drunk kitten?" Its silly but it eases some tention and it also conveys you a guy with sense of humor and is lade back. It will work trust me. Most guys seem to have One-itis for a girl they just hook up with, its natural plus its also very common in the community. To cure it, you go out game 10 more girls and if you still feel the same way about her than the 10 other girls you will get with than by all means go for her I think the HB applies applies if her attractiveness is over 7 but yeah I have to still look into it. Have you texted or called her back, if so what did she say or what did you say? If you haven't yet then it might take a little more work, i mean if you're going to see her at college and you havent texted or called her than its going be really awkward

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Although the asian chick did not respond to my text, I still have some good news. I waited about two days after my text and poked her on FB (I added the asian chick and her friend the very next day). She actually poked me back the very next day and now I am not sure if I should text her or message her on FB?? Have a poke war for a while than message her??

-Prodigyy

If you waited 2 days and no reply but poked her on FB than you may be trying a little too hard haha. But nonetheless I'll give you credit for tryin man, unorthodox but atleast you got something If you want to get your hands on some Facebook Game, read this, it should do the trick! http://www.highstatusmale.com/bookshelf ... method.pdf .

You can poke her as much you want once you attract her more, there's an inside joke in there had to say it lol.

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