I'm new to the PUA society. I read Styles "the game" on a friends recommendation.
On the other hand I'm not new to being a player. I'm just entering my junior year and I've been playing the game on my own for a while.
I really liked your posts. here is somethings that I would add.
Don't be a freshman. Freshman have NO social proof. I've been making out with a girl and had her stop when she found out that I was a freshman. we fooled around later but my chances for the f-close were shot and i didn't get digits.
If you are a freshman you will be tempted to use opening lines like "high I'm new, what grade are you in?" or even "What year are you?" which says the same thing in less words. The trick is to give your self upperclassmen social proof the minute that you open you mouth. Be careful though NEVER claim the be an upperclassmen. when you get caught you will loose a lot of credibility and look really insecure.
Here's how you modify the common "what year are you opener?" You start with "who do you know here? (in an open friendly way)" follow with "are you a junior?"
The reason this works is because it assumes a certain level of college knowledge only an upper classmen could have. It doesn't matter if they are a junior. Just because you asked they assume that you know more than them because they still don't know your year
If they are a senior you just stole there thunder by implying that they don't seem like one. If they are a junior you hit the nail on the head, instant connection. If they are a sophomore you paid them a complement but still maintained dominance. When you use this routine you need to have a funny follow up with the differences between different class men. Feel free to rat on upperclassmen; they have no enthusiasm, aren't fun anymore and uninteresting but remember not to insult them just the general stereotype so that later they can prove themselves wrong and qualify themselves to you. Don't say anything bad about freshman that ALWAYS makes you look insecure no matter what grade you are in.
Here comes the fun part. If they ask you the freshman question "what year are you?" (if they don't they are lame. Just run the routine it usually starts conversation) remember you can't lie. But you can turn the question around "What do you think?" and then when they get it wrong laugh and throw on a cocky smile. and then tell them that you are a freshmen at this point it won't matter because you already have them qualifying themselves TO A FRESHMAN they know you are different. Or you can lie so bad that its funny "I'm 56" or "I'm an 9 year senior, have you seen Van Wilder?" This works great for meeting girls and guys. But if its a senior girl then tell them you a freshman and tease them the rest of the night for being a cougar.
For night 2s. I never take girls on dates. I love to make them take me on dates though. the best way to do this is by winning friendly wagers (they want to see you again anyway). Classic move is to invite them to a party. If its your party its good social proof. But if there is no party and you can't land a wager. Here is a good back up plan. "Ice Creme date" (you can find simple directions on time. Its cheap and easy) you just txt the girl "Do you want to make ice creme?" they will at least be curious what could be more innocent than ice creme lol. Schedual the date during a weekday because she probably won't have anything better to do. Now you have her one on one at your place. you seem creative and original.
I hope this helps.
CHAT
