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I don't have a problem coming up with my own lines... but what is the strategy? C&F? a Neg (assuming an 8+) , fluff? What's your name? Comment about her energy? There must be a tactic, I can figure it out after 3 months but that's what this forum is for no, to learn from other people's experience, right?
There is NO tactic for picking up girls consistently...it comes from within you. I'm going to guess that you have a drink in your hand and you scan the room over and over looking for the next girl to approach. Perhaps if you knew this big trip was coming, you should have practiced extensively before hand, just saying!
DON'T...you are now the creep of the club looking for ass, it's obvious!
Regardless, I'm trying to help...relax and yes, this is what this forum is for, help. But if you don't find what you are looking for, THE BIG ANSWER, don't get upset at those that have helped, it's exactly why we are posting, we do have better things to do too.
In my opinion, You are going about this all wrong and with that mentality, you are not going to get anywhere fast by asking for lines and tactics. I would do that before big trips out to big cities or big clubs...I read or listen to as much stuff from different sources and then what, I'd be all cluttered and stuck in my head and I would go home alone. If It's not what you would naturally or normally do, it's not going to work...I'm sure you have heard of congruence and no one can apply what they just read or watched without trying it, tweaking it and then making it work for them, it takes time but I have been wrong before, perhaps this is another instance.
First things first...are you enjoying yourself, having fun?
Sounds like an easy question, but your focus should be just that, not girls!
Girls should be an added bonus to your fun night out.
You'd be surprised as to how many girls approach us because we "look" fun or are told "You guys are having way too much fun" Our best nights have been just guy nights, and we all end up with girls!
You mention having success before, what did you do?
What did you say?
On a given night, how many girls do you approach and what have you been saying?
Honestly, I hope you find what you seek and quick, I'm sure that it would make for a better trip, just one success can really change your mindset but don't let that be your primary focus...also, try to start before you hit the spot, in the day, start being more social...just talk...too everyone, being social early is always a good start for a awesome evening.
CHAT
