Hey,

I hope this is in the right section, sorry if its not!

Ok right, ive got this girl thats always been into me and things have happened in the past but, obviously i didnt no about the game back then soo i hit LMR badly because shes in a relationship!

But earlier i text her asking her to come out with me tonight (i knew it was a long shot because she lives about an hour and a half drive away but the main aim of the text was to get her to bring up about this private show were both going to on friday, which she did!) so we start talking:

After she says she cant drive down to go out with me tonight she replies with, "are you going to the exhibition?"

ME: Shame, guess im gunna have to have fun without you! Yeh i will be, you coming out afterwards for a couple of drinks? If you want a place to stay your welcome to sleep at mine...

(she was taking ages to reply, so i sent)

ME: Take any longer to reply and i might fall asleep

HER: Ohh im sorry! i didnt even hear my phone! On friday my dad and his girlfriend and my sister will be there. So there wont be any going out for me

ME:Whats stopping you coming?

HER: Im driving them in! Haha

(soo basically, shes driving her family down to the show so they're no way for them to get back home)

ME: Why dont you let your dad drive your family back and ill drop you home after breakfast

HER: You'll drop me home to St Albans? Ha

ME:I'll take you where ever you want

HER: Thank you for the offer. Your lovely Where will you be taking me?

ME: Woooahh slow down, i havnt even asked you what you want for breakfast yet

HER: I wish i could stay but i cant

ME: Fair enough, i wouldnt want you to stay because you have to, i want you to stay because you want to.

HER:I would never not want to, but i have the whole family with me I'll let you know if plans change though! Are you bringing your family?


Thats it i havnt text her back yet!! She realising she should be doing this because she has a BF!! Soo what can i send back???

What??? She will let you know? That is bullshit. Then you are not leading, but at home waiting for her call.

Wait for a few days and send her a textmessage that she will be expected at a certain place, certain time.

She's deff someone into you, however she was politely rejecting bro. And you were being extra pushy and a tad creepy. So you want her to drive to the show with her whole family then drive off with some dude they don't know at the end. Leaving her dad with her car keys like he wouldn't kno she's going to fuck some guy? Come in bro. Would you leave your mom and sisters to go get some pussy?

Ayy?? "that she will be expected at a certain place, certain time" ??? what do you mean?

Shes left them before, but yeh i can see where your coming from. So what would you propose my next step to be?

Let that bitch breathe lol..

The show is like a day 2 treat it like one. Flirt make cool with the family and most importantly have fun. Anythings possible remember that. You can probaly lay her in the bathroom that day if you play your cards right

Cool ok, soo im not gunna reply to her last text and leave it a couple of days then reply with something casual! Then on friday play it asif it was day 1! sound better?

after not replying to her last text a couple of hours ago, shes just sent another saying:

HER: Hope your having a nice time. Goodnight xxx

You showed too much interest. Also really pushy and kinda desperate:

- ME: Shame, guess im gunna have to have fun without you! Yeh i will be, you coming out afterwards for a couple of drinks? If you want a place to stay your welcome to sleep at mine... ---> Invited her to stay the night right off the bat, if you do want to make her stay, be playful ! Don't put "..." like you're waiting for her approval. She took ages to reply on this one as you can see, because she felt the pressure you put on her.

- ME: Why dont you let your dad drive your family back and ill drop you home after breakfast ---> Again you pushed it. Stay over and breakfast implied sex.

- HER: You'll drop me home to St Albans? Ha

ME:I'll take you where ever you want
----> At this point you just sounded desperate enough to do whatever it takes to make her stay the night.

If you want to make her leave them, don't tell her. Just suggest a quick meetup cuz you want to see her or something, and work it off from there. It's easier to make her stay in person when you can kino, and build rapport on her. It's also harder for her to refuse in person.
At the end, she felt the pressure and her ASD popped and she bailed out trying to break tension with the "So.. you're bringing your family?"
When the girl has a bf, just make hanging out seems relax and as casual as you can, her ASD will be less to deal with, and your life would be much easier.

Thanks for your help guys, we'll see what happens friday and ill post an FR

This is exactly what I was gonna say