Hi guys, i've posted something about this girl ages ago I think, but things have changed since then and i'm just looking for some advice cause she's a difficult hand to play!
Originally, I knew this girl's friend through facebook, I then saw her tagged in a few of her photos and thought "wow!" so added her, like the creep I am. We got talking through facebook chat ocassionally. When she was drunk she sometimes text me saying "lets get sexy at mine" and stuff, purely innocent cause she was a virgin. But that to me was an IOI that she text me when drunk. But before I knew it, she had a boyfriend.. it was soon a LDR as he went to the army, but they stayed together. During this period we became fairly good friends (despite never meeting) and told each other a fair bit about ourselves.
She used to tell me about how her BF took her for granted and would rather see his mates (LJBF?) and I used to comfort her.
After 6 months, they split up. He dumped her saying it wasn't working.. her mind was all over the place and she was on about losing weight (sigh..), I offered to take her out, but made the mistake of saying "don't worry, just as friends", to which she replied "yeah obviously, we're just mates".
I drove to hers and picked her up.. we then went to a pub, got food, had a few cocktails each and I drove her home. I tried a bit of push-pull and tried to be a little cocky-flirty, but she seemed very shy in real life (lack of eye contact etc). She spoke about her ex a little and still seemed a bit oneitis'ed, so I didn't try and k-close (like the idiot I am).
She THEN told me that I should of k-closed her, as "things had changed since she said we were just friends as she wasnt attached anymore".. so we were going to meet up again. She invited me round her's, even though her family was in. I never went as I was ill, and nothing happened that week.
She drunk text me a few more times, and then said she needed to speak to me a couple of days after she went on a night out. I was like "sure, go for it".. she then told me she thought she had a one-night stand but couldn't remember (bullshit), and was only telling me as only i'd understand. I had a bit of a go at her saying she was silly, to which she flipped out at and said "i knew i shouldn't of told you, don't speak to me again."
I rang her, and text her, like an idiot, and got nothing back.
Last night she text me at 01:31 (drunk) saying "I miss talkin to you xx"
She did this 2 weeks ago, to which I replied "drunk yesterday were we?
" and I got nothing back when sober.
She goes to Uni in September - I want to f-close her before that... what do I do? Do I text back, if so, how?
She's not very forward, so i'd have to work for it.. I just don't see how I can do it. She seemed genuinely interested (texting me first, which for her is quite a big thing) just after we met.. but I feel like i'm back at square one.
(sorry for the essay, but she's soooo fit!) x
CHAT
