Last Friday I went out a girl that I knew from back in the day at University. We went on dates before but nothing ever transpired from it. So, we went out to a local comedy club and have a few drinks, it finished around 11:00pm and she's like "Where do you want to go now?". We went to a pub around the corner for more drinks and we "caught up". Conversation was good, the topic was about sex within about 5 minutes. We got some food and left there around 1:30am and I took her home. I walked her to her door and gave her a hug then went for the K-close. She didn't give me the cheek but she didn't kiss back she just stood there, I pulled back and gave a confused look and she said "Do it again." So, I went in again and BOOM, it was on like Donkey Kong! I pulled away after doing that for a bit (left her wanting more) and said "Goodnight, I'll see you around, right?" to which she replied, "Call me." I said that I want to see her before she goes away and she replied "Call me." again.

I called her Saturday night because I didn't want to wait too long, she was at home with her sisters watching a movie doing their nails. It was just friendly conversation. Since then just a few texts back and forth. This week she's got work and auditions then next week she's going to be away for a week. When she said that I didn't bother asking to meet up because I didn't want to seem needy or clingy, so I probably won't see her til she gets back.

Now, I just want some opinions or guidance from you guys because recently I got out of a relationship where we were talking and seeing each other all the time and when it ended it was cold turkey. So, I've got to try not to be clingy with this new chickita, however I don't want to just leave her at the sidelines because from past experiences with her, if I just leave her there, she might think I'm not interested.

Thoughts? How about somethings I should avoid doing?

Thanks in advance! - Mr Elusive, forever calzone.

Do you think u want a relationship with her or do you just wanna go for the F-close with her?

Just give her a call, start a fun conversation and then ask her to do something together when she gets back.

If u want to F-close her then, then choose something at wich u can escalate. Maybe walk through the park after your ur date and start makin out there and make her hot.

It sounds u got your things right and that she wants you, so i have the confidence u can pull it off.

If you got any specific qeustions, u can ask me.

Goodluck!

Definately should have met up with her within a few days of the Kclose.
The reason is because you want her emotions to continue and not just get backshelved in her mind. Her emotional window was open but will not stay open forever.

I usually run solid text game after the Kclose by saying shit like "i really enjoyed kissing you, i would kiss you right now if you were next to me"

building tension, planting seeds in her head. making her envision, fantasize the moment, so that she can play it out in reality and release the tension.

after solid texting her , she is ready for another meet up, and on this date I build more comfort, more kissing, making out, and continue text gaming.

I avoid phone calls because i am simply not good at it and i feel in general girls rather texting because texting in general is much less of a commitment and easier to tease and get sexual.

by the 3rd date, she wants to get fucked

Thanks guys!

To answer your questions I would like a relationship with her but I'm a man and f-closing is always on my mind lol. I'm thinking of texting her to see if she's got some free time before her trip, because between us, I'm dying to see her again to escalate this further. Just a simple "Hey lady, do you have any free time to get together before you leave?". Or should I just take a cold shower and wait until she gets back?

I should have definitely kept rolling with it to make the emotion stronger and deeper. I'll remember to do that next time.