ok theres this girl that ive been friends with for about a year. I never used to be into her until the last couple of months. I started hanging out less, not returning her calls. She started texting me saying "i miss you" and stuff like that.

Me and some friends, including her went out last night, we were having some drinks around a friends house before going out. I pick up my friends guitar and start playing it. Im pretty good, had lessons since the age of about 7. Im 22 now. Anyways, she starts asking me to teach her some songs and i notice she has her hand on my inner thigh whilst she is talking to me. When im playing she puts her hand back there and says "so when we leave later, can we get a cab back to yours and you walk me home from there?"

Anyways a few weeks ago this girl must have found out that i was into her. She just said "i wish i was into you, your so amazing"

But this was before i started seeing two other girls, of which she knew about one and found out about another last night.

But back to last night, i walk her back from mine to her's and when we are down her road she starts asking me about this girl and when i dont give much away she gets quite angry. She starts asking "is she good in bed?" so i say "yeah she is" and she starts saying "well i'm better you know". Is this her qualifying herself?

I go home because she is slightly drunk and had work in like 4 hours, and she texts me. Saying "am i special?" i dont reply. Then a little while later i was a bit angry and said "your just trying to see if your as good as the girls im seeing at the moment, aww"

She replied by saying "i know im as good, so no competition "
I replied by saying "well i'll be the judge of that"

This morning she apologized about being nosey and i said "its okay, everyone gets jealous sometimes" trying to get her to be chasing me instead.

Then she just replied with "jealous pfft!" Have i hit a nerve? what should be my next move?

Thanks

You read that, right? You walked her home? Did you high-five her too?

You missed so much.

Leave her to stew on it. She knows she is jealous, but she probably didn't want to be called out on it.

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From a written post we can only deduce so much, but I'd say that next time you 2 are alone (ASAP), if you just aim for physical contact (straight for sex, a good make-out, whatever works for you) you could definitely succeed without too much trouble. She seems to be in to you, however most girls do want you to take action yourself. Her putting her hands on you, flirting with you, etcetera will only go so far, you need to act on their signs. (As to move towards a close, or simply test what she's doing.) "She starts asking "is she good in bed?" so i say "yeah she is" and she starts saying "well i'm better you know"" This is her falling on her knees asking you to make a move, in a safe way. (Or it's a shit test and she's probing you for interest, even though she herself has none- some girls do this sort of thing to create satellites, however if you would've made a move the answer would've appeared.)


/cpt. hindsight on: If I was in that situation and she was attractive, I would've gone for sex.

-ZeroValley

So i took your advice and let her stew on it. Before i called her out on being jealous i said that i didnt want my brothers baby to be born tonight because i had plans. She obviously took thought i had plans with another girl. I can just imagine it running through her head. She finishes work at around 8:30-9:00 and i get the following messages. This is on the same day as i called her out on being jealous.

I am sitting in the cinema with my guy friends and i get this text at 9. So i was the first thing she was thinking of after work right?

"I hope the baby does come and ruin your plans! x"

i reply and say that i'm with my friends, she would find out anyways because we share friends. So i couldnt imply that i was with the girl she thought i was with. This is how the convo goes.
her: "oh what fun! X"
me: Sarcastically "yep, cant be excitement 24/7! x"
her: "why would you want it to be!? x"

I didnt reply and she texts me saying she's going to bed and goodnight.

Then this morning she is posting stuff on my facebook and has set her profile picture to a pic of me and her.

Then she just sent me this when she found out from a friend that i'm not going out with them

"how come your not going out? your more than welcome to come and watch glee with me at 10"

Now im no glee fan at all, im into rock music (im a guitarist) so this means she is game right?

A friend of mine went through something similar and guess what? He now has a restraining order against her. The girl was loopy utter loopy.

Test the waters I guess but still play hard to get.

She sounds a bit mental.

But yes you may proceed to caveman her.

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Looks great, let us know how it ends!