how to get your ex back in a few days when she really hates you and you've hurt hear

please comment and help me out

You don't want an ex back. They're called ex's for a reason.

Especially if you've done something wrong in the relationship. You don't want that held over your head for the remainder of your relationship.

Whatever you did, you did for a reason. Maybe you felt you weren't getting something and needed to find it some where else. Maybe she was being annoying all the time until you snapped and called her a bitch. Whatever it was, think about what made you do what you did, and that should settle any thoughts on getting back with her.

Drop it, move on. Sucks to hear, but truth hurts.

You hurt her and she hates you. Unless she is an emotional infant then you will not make any inroads within a few days and if you can then that's a whole new reason to move on.

I'm of the belief that relationships can be fixed and that break ups don't have to be permanent. That being said, you need to accept that you're in the dog house and let her calm down before you can even think about fixing anything for more than 2 weeks.

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I'm a winner - I am going to win.

And no contact in the following weeks.

With no disrespect to the fellow PUA's in here, they are all WRONG.
They forget that each PUA has a reason for doing what they are doing.
Just have sex, Meet the one, revenge, now whatever the case may be. You can use the game to your advantage in any CASE.

Is you wanting to get your ex back okay? of course it is.
Will you? Maybe.
After all, I understand from the point of my fellow AFC/PUA's, that their motives are to just meet/fuck, as many as possible.

But what if your ex is "The one," what if she is "High value" what if you want to take a break from the game for her? (IN E.G-Neil Strauss, The writer of the game has took a break to be with the special "one")

Now, what do you need to do? The rules still apply. Make her chase you. Do not apologize for what you did, no matter how much she wants you to remember this is one reason she is still attracted to you. To make you put her on a pedestal and for her to move on.

You need to apply the same rules of the game to fix this mess. Now what I would do is not text her, call her at all until she makes the first move.
How would she make the first move? Break Up Remorse, your DHV's. If you have FB, it is very KEY to make it clear that you are FINE without her. If you have already said sorry, or displayed desperateness towards her already, you haven't lost. This game can never be lost, but your chances of winning is as much as hoping for the game to take you back a few steps on its own. Good Luck.


Choklate.

I just joined this website 5 miniutes ago, and I can already tell you that you have ONEITIS.

Rather shellshock. Seeking something familiar.

How to know if you have ONEITIS: Go gaming, find a girl. If you hit it off and you still have feelings for your ex YOU DON'T have oneitis. If you don't then you do.
Either way post pictures from the night onto facebook, thats a DHV that I was talking about earlier. Win/win?

I've thought about this concept before and it seems logical. There was a time where I was trying to get over my ex by going out and while in a conversation, they would try to bring up my ex. "Why did you and your girl break up... blah blah blah" I would always deflect the question and change the subject, but the thought would make my ex enter my mind. At that point, I would lose focus on the conversation and it would be hard to concentrate.

At some point, the thought would leave my mind and I would be back to my normal self.

So is this considered Oneitis?

that depends. Do you still have feelings for her? if so go sleep with another girl, or make out with someone else and if you still like her then maybe you should give her another go. If you don't do those steps first then you probably do have Oneitis.

This was a while ago, but yeah, I was sleeping around a lot and still had feelings.

Oh well, no sense in worrying about the past or what could have been now...

Well I think you do have oneitis, but not a serious case. You need to kill the feelings of wanting a girlfriend or someone special inside of you until after you lived your life. because your oneitis can only be cured if you meet another girl that is as valuable to you. But then again if you are still young, she will only break your heart aswell. So have fun, and tell yourself that you will MEET someone with equal or more value in a later time.

Was this directed towards me? If so, I have no feelings for her anymore, so no ITIS for me.. Completely happy with the life I am living without her

Is she outta your league? Will you never get another girl as sexy and interesting as her? If so, then try getting with her. If not, then go and find 3 other girls just as sexy and interesting as her. Thread closed/