so the other day i was watching a movie with this girl and another friend and when a scary part came on this girl put her hands over her eyes (i know, what a baby). I moved her hand away from her head with mine and called her a little girl or something and she offered no resistance she just let me put it where i felt like. Is that the reaction from kino that youre looking for? like she just goes with it?

other facts about kino are more than welcome and any answers are appreciated.

Cahill, sorry I dont want to hijack the thread but I would like to know about Kino also. In response to you tho, I guess she is comfortable with you touching her face, touching i.e. caressing a girls face is very sexual. Just depends how softly and sexual you touched her i guess, she could have deemed it as playful which is just as good i THINK.

Going out next week to the zoo (i thought it was a good "date" idea) and not sure how to kino her in that setting without creeping the girl out.

Most probably go for drinks after, so want to kind of set the scene for the drinks in the evening.

The basic reaction you want with KINO is if she gives you an IOI, or if she's comfortable after your touch. What you're looking for with KINO is making slight physical contact and gradually escalating them in order to let them know you are comfortable touching women and are used to it beacuse you're such a social individual. That's what they see, or wanna see anyway. Remember, if you want to initiate a specific KINO step you have to make sure you successfully performed the previous KINO steps before it. If you want to hug a girl, how can she feel comfortable with it if you haven't even touched hands to begin with?

Ok another question, do women like to be touched on the first date? I have googled stuff and there is a great deal of contradictory reports, articles and posts by women and men. One may say yeah get her used to your touch, another article may suggest that a woman wants a gentleman etc.

I have never been one to initiate touch or kino but this is my second step of my learning so to speak to use the initiative and take charge and just touch.

Well youve pretty much hijacked this thread but from my experience you should absolutely touch on the first date. My first date with a previous girl we touched alot and she let me fuck her in two weeks and the date went quite well. It builds comfort and attraction.

Im sorry Cahill. Maybe the answers would help both of us I guess.