| Hello PUAs and Potential PUAs!
I live in Holland SPAM, and I'm originally from China, as u may know it's not a very good country to become a PUA naturally.
I just turned 21 in feb, I had a couple of relationships so far, and I only started to have sex with my last girl friend. Most of them are Chinese. And I had one girlfriend from Thailand when she was in exchange in China, and before that I had some kind of "online" relationship with a Slovakian girl when I haven't stepped out of my country, but yet it was quite a good memory, we were both innocent and happy about that. Later on, I dated an ugly looking Dutch girl for 2 weeks, who was 1 year older than me and never had kissed a guy before. I have a very strong preference in white girls, they r HOT. That was pretty much the reason I left my last girlfriend.
We had almost 2 years, living in the same room. We had great time together, I was in love, also we had great sex as well, I could make her 6 to 8 orgasms in a row, now I see that as a good practice. She is pretty as a Chinese girl, but this white girl thing wouldn't let go from my head, so I kinda struggled since beginning. I know I sound like a dick here at this point, and I hurt that girl. But I just didn't wanna struggle like that for the rest of my life, and plus, getting a white girl as a girlfriend or something was half of my reason to leave China, the other half is education and career.
Now it's my 3rd year in Holland and things start to click from this year. I did 2 years in Food Tech, which was boring and it was a very non-social environment. That was also the time I was with my ex-gf. So I was basically non-social to non-Chinese, as most Chinese people here are kind of hanging out within their own clan. But I was different, comparing to other Chinese, I am generally much better in English, and I had the ability to socialize non-seductively, and I have a very strong motivation to be more social.
So, I decided to quit that study and start a new one, a totally different one, which is called European Studies. It is in the same school, but students there are totally different, the female male ratio is somewhere like 7/3, many of those are hot. We now have so many parties all the time. And I met this German guy David and a Slovakian Guy Boris who is truly a natural PUA.
They, are the PUAs in the school. At some point, they changed my life. Before, I could have no parties for 3 month, now, I can't live without parties every week. Also, before, I was just waiting to meet a right white woman, and get into a serious relationship and something. But now, I realize it is better to become a PUA as I am young and as there are so many beautiful things out there.
Also David introduced me the "The Game", through this book, I also started to read Mystery Method aka The Venusian Artist Handbook, I also watched PUA season 1 and 2 on VH1.
All these, are the things that makes me think there is so much more I can become, great stories that happened in movies are actually happening around me, and I have to be a part of it!
Last but not least, is how am I doing in the game now. I go out a lot, and every week I get to know new people. In most cases in parties through people I already know or just got known. I am able to dance with girls sometimes, but they r drunk. Not many techniques were applied. And their attraction don't usually last long, so I haven't got a kiss close yet, then of course no sex close. After that, some of them become friends of mine, and some of them just don't wanna talk to me when I see them next time. I don't wanna bring it to a racism level, but it can be a factor here. But I know it is something that matters but however it is reality and there are many things u can do to make things go beyond the race.
Finally, thank you for your patience if u read the whole story. I wish we can help each other and have some real fun!
Z
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