How can I help my virgin friend out. He is a 19 year old virgin. He always stays at home b/c he has AA badly. Rarely does he come out with us an open sets. He's quiet and in the background when we do open sets. I won't say any names, sensitiveNick, but he's on these forums.

Anyways, now he claims that his ex specifically told him that he wants to fuck... But he's going AFC and saying, "I don't want her anymore. It's one of those things where you want what you can't have"... Da fuck outta here! He sits at home and plays COD all day, when he could be picking up girls with me. How should I help this AFF. (Average Frustrated FUCK!)

Your homie needs to realize that you only live once and if you get rejected by some girl then it really doesnt matter. It takes some years of building a mental block against bullshit, against what some random chick may think at one point in her life. Hell, most of the girls we meet may look back and thinkof themselves as foolish and regret sleeping with us, and wished someone like your friend was around to enjoy life with.

Alcohol helps too.

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chill the fuck up

You know my friend actually got me into this PUA shit... but I surpassed him. He got rejected badly ONCE, by a grenade, and that ruined him. I remember him runnin' up to girls and openin' them, etc... One grenade rejects him, and he's done for life... C'mon bro, it was just 1 hoe. Grip the fluck up!

But yea I agree with you. He needs to do more blow out game. Rejection kills him.

Go out with him to the mall, and each go up to at least 5 girls and do these purposeful blowouts

"Hey, I'm not hitting on you or anything, but, will you be my girlfriend?"
"Hey, I'm not hitting on you or anything, but, can I get your number?"

Ask them directions to places and try to keep the conversation going whilst ONLY looking directly at their tits

Start talking to them nervously, and then try and ask for the number, but then drop your phone and a bunch of condoms out of your pocket and try and keep her there whilst picking them up

Ask them if they know where you can get a chlamydia test around here. Then proceed to ask them on a date.

- The point is to go in and realise the humour and fun behind getting blown out, and just revelling in the social awkwardness until it doesn't matter any more. After you have fun with these, opening normally is EASY!

p.s. I was a virgin at 19 too, it's nothing to be ashamed of.

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You guys do realise its his responsibility to do his leg work?

You're not exactly doing much to help him build confidence lol.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qhmcJ7Zg5ko

dude this is great advice, i did this when i was having trouble getting over the fear of rejection. really worked well

I have been involved in this community for about 2 years and done my share of the newbie stuff. I agree that these missions are helpful but saying that AA goes away and it's doesn't matter anymore is imo to give false hope. AA will always be there and opening sucks bigtime and always will suck bigtime. But that just me..

The only thing to do is to accept that opening is not fun but the reward is worth it.

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Im from Sweden so sorry for any grammar or spelling misstakes.

Im still a virgin at 23! is it something to be ashamed of? Probably. At the moment i am an AFC wanting to make a go of this PUA stuff.

Before i sarge though, i am on here learning the theory like the banter, good openers and shiz.

Definitely not. Why would you been ashamed of it, because you think other people might laugh at you? Who cares what others think.

I think being a virgin at 23 says that you've missed several years of opportunities, but nothing more. Get out there my friend!

Oh, and as for the original post.. one of my best friends is 20 and he's a virgin, infact he's only kissed about 3 girls in his life. He's not ugly by any means, he's just useless at talking to girls. I'm trying to get him into PUA but I think he's a little scared. Watch this space.

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