I was at a club last night with some friends, and I met a friend-of-a-friend. She's hot, and we got on well together.

I found out that she'd asked one of my friends if a different girl I was talking to you was a my gf, and my friend replied saying something like "oh, he doesn't do that. he practically asexual" on account of me always landing in the friend zone (I think some of my friends probably I'm gay but haven't come out yet or something)

Anyway, when I woke up this morning there was a friend request on Facebook from that girl - she's single, and I'd like to avoid landing in the friend zone again but I have no idea what I should do.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks.

Have you picked up any PUA DVDs or ebooks? If not, I suggest you pick up some literature. David DeAngelo, Mystery, etc. These gurus go into detail on how to stay out of the 'friend zone'. David D. has EXCELLENT material, I highly recommend it.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Keep it flirty, use push/pull to build initial attraction over facebook to get her to see you properly. Then you want to make your intentions clear from the start, not by being too direct and saying you like her or anything like that, but use lots of kino and try to add sexual undertones to the conversation or sexual jokes. Keep conversation on the correct topics, dont let her start moaning about her life or problems to you. As soon as you get an opportunity to escalate or go for a kiss, do it, you'll regret not taking the chance after, even if you get rejected you'll lose that stupid asexual reputation thing people are saying about you.