Ok so I met a girl last night. We had a good time dancing and grinding, we didn't talk that much (only to exchance name and told her that she have the same eyes color as my porsh lol). After about 5minutes of dancing, she ask me if I want a drink..I am like ok sure, then we go to the bar and she tell me what she wants. I am like wtf, if you buy the first round I will buy the second one.

She said "Ok wathever", we continue to dance for after 1 minute and she left. I personnally never bought a drink for a girl. Maybe she tooks my joke seriously about the porsh haha. I think it's a funny pick up line to use to break the ice.

Anyway, how do you deal with gold diggers?

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Sorry for my english mistakes.

i use the im a male feminist that believe a woman shouldn't depend on a guy. and you need a woman that can see through the sterio types of believing man should pay for her. why should a man go broke and a woman bank account go higher. then i ask her if she like me this relationship must be equal.

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A player is just a man that won't settle for less

good one.

If you want to pay for sex, your better off just getting a prostitute and guarantee you get what you pay for.

Yea, there are girls that get off to getting free drinks, so your better not buying them one. If they are talking to you for like 20 minutes +, they showed they are not interested in getting a free drink.

girl - hey can you buy me a drink
you - sure you can buy me a drink

girl - hey do you wanna drink
you - yea jameson, ill be here when u get back

agreed most women flaunt that guys buy them all these drinks, i personally have never bought a drink for a girl that i do not know. i don't mind getting a drink for a friend if we bump into each other at the same bar. But random women thinking they can get a free drink off me I think not..

A few years ago I told a girl that she was rude for not buying ME a drink... amazingly it worked not sure if it was the "drunken swagger/confidence" going but shrugs. It even worked out to my advantage as I hooked up with the girl. Sadly no number close but I was pretty sloppy at this point and had my mind on getting home.

Not buying a girl drink I think is a complete crap rule. Yeah, if is a strange girl that ask you to buy her a drink, I will say no. But if is a girl I have been talking to for awhile and build good amount of comfort with, it alright to do. I am speaking from experience because I have pull girls that I have bought drinks. Seriously, 5 $ is too much to burn on a girl?

How is a girl asking a guy for a drink a gold digger? Any who's, either turn the tables on the girl or get the girl some water in a vodka glass and tell her its vodka. Or actually get a girl a drink.

Her -Could you buy me a drink?
You -If you iron my clothes!
I do buy girls drinks regularly when out but only on my initiative. I would never buy a girl a drink if she ask me too.

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- "Give me ten minutes to talk away my ugly face and I will bed the Queen of France" - Voltaire

Im from Sweden so sorry for any grammar or spelling misstakes.

Seriously, I think is a DLV if it some strange girl. But If your building comfort, and she properly qualified her self to you, its alright to do. Especially if your pulling her to your place. It would be kind of awkward your not buying her a drink but your inviting her into your house.

Just say OK and come back with a glass of water

I would be more likely to buy a girl a drink if she didn't ask me for it, but most times when i go drinking its just to enjoy a night with my friends. So I tend to steer towards watching opportunities rather than trying to buy a girl a drink

It has nothing to do with the money, every dude has 5 dollars. Its the intent behind the action that makes it a no-no. You know that. I think the no drink rule is good because a lot of guys don't know when its appropriate to break the rule. Therefore, they shouldn't break the rule.

I like this reasoning a lot, and a good, succinct way to explain the rule. I posted a video example somewhere else too.