hi guys i'm new to the forum and hope oyu will help me,couse i'm good at mess up things :/........

i met a girl last week,after opening a group, and from the beginning i found from her a lot of interest(ioi),she talked to me in fb,searched me and other things......i invited her out twice,she gave me her number too by the way,the first i didn't come but i texed her coused i had a problem,the second she told me the day after that she didn't have money to respond on her phone and couldn't come(ok this time maybe i pretended too much)........................... what i recently found out is that she has recently broken up with her boyfriend(i know him) and now he is trying to get her back but as i see she isnt going back to him............

i would like some help,some advices on what to do,couse ,even if i'm trying not to do one-itis(correct??) and i'm seeing other girls,she really shocked me in a very positive way and don't want to lose her............

thanks for everything

edoardo

I don't see how this is complicated. She is just hitting you back with the same game you are hitting her with. Just use game as usual and win. If she says she is broke then NEG

"Must suck to be broke, maybe you should start working the corner more"

She will probably not use that excuse again for fear of the neg.

If she keeps acting up then freeze her out.

She will come back and the real game will start then.

WHATEVER YOU DO (I say this because I just made this mistake and now am having to use WAY to much energy correcting my mistake) DO NOT GET SUCKED INTO A CONVERSATION ABOUT HER EX

Ina pinch say "I like hanging out with you but I am not your therapist. I just wanted to get out of the house and have a good time."

"There has got to be something more interesting to talk about than that guy"

"You need to take that drama to Maury"

"Well Captain Mopey Pants I think it's (whatever works as a dismissal getting late, time for me to go floss the cat, whatever"

DONT GET FRIEND ZONED ITS A HUGE PAIN IN THE ASS.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

ok never friend zone i know....she once said somthing about it but made her understand that i don't whant to talk about him and that i'm not looking for firnd zone but for more obvioulsy...........

only one thing that i'm not sure with..........i still didn't k-close her,but i'm scared that if i do it i'll lose her.....or maybe i'm just saying crazy things............

by the way...this is a hb 7.5

If you don't keep moving forward it's done. Take the initiative and close. Worst thing that can happen is rejection and it ain't bad at all. line em up and close em down.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

this never sounds any less gay, no matter how many times i read it.

no offense, but "scared"? seriously? i'd be more scared of being a bitch, then losing a bitch, lol.

Mad Respect Mack

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.