Hey guys,

Last night I got drunk and slept with the girlfriend of a good friend of mine. Apparently he is a better friend than I am.. I would like your opinion.

She eased my conscience a little by telling me she was already planning to break up with him and that she has been fantasizing about f-ing me for months but I'm still very ashamed of myself, I broke the brocode that used to be sacred for me with both feet.

I don't know if I should tell him. Personally I wouldn't want to know and I don't want to make him feel bad just to ease my own conscience.. We also all work together and it would certainly end up in at least one of us quitting and I would never see him again.

What do you guys think?



P.S. I actually had the most amazing orgasm I've ever had which makes it even worse
P.P.S. I found out first hand that girls with boyfriends will sleep with you but they will try everything to make it seem like it's entirely your fault.
She kept saying that it was an accident and that I seduced her even though she invited me over, she wanted me to join in the tub and she started the f-ing. I'm not trying to make me look better since I should have said no immediatly but at the time it was a little amusing to hear her denying it like that and make it look like it was entirely me.

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wow dude this is a BAD situation u got urself into. Before ilearned game i did this with my friends gf bc he was planning on breaking upwith her.

It was a lesson well learned. we also worked together, he left, our friends turned there backs on me, even his acquaintances stopped talking to me. Even though the temptation is there you have to not give into something like that.

You have to make the decision whether or not you want to tell him. Unless you feel like this girl can keep it a secret but girls rarely do n in that case u'll be in more shit with your bro.

She might have wanted to fuck you for the longest time and planned on breaking up with ur friend but im sure he still has feelings for her.

Antonio-

I wouldn't tell him, ignorance is bliss. But only if you can both shut up about it... do keep in mind that if she tells him first then there's no saving it. You betrayed his trust and instead of coming clean you kept it a secret.

If my gf cheated on me I wouldn't want anyone telling me that shit, I don't want to know. Shit happens, especially when alcohol is involved. (I'm not saying it's an excuse to cheat btw)

lol, of course they do, they don't want to be seen as sluts, even if they have to lie and make shit up.

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I had a situation kinda like this half a year ago. I told him straigt up that im sorry, got punched in the face, said i deserved that and im sorry.
We didn't speak for like 2 weeks and now we are friends again.

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- "Give me ten minutes to talk away my ugly face and I will bed the Queen of France" - Voltaire

Im from Sweden so sorry for any grammar or spelling misstakes.

Of course she was "already planning on breaking up with him." Come on, man. Were you born yesterday? That's a stock quote from a cheaters' mouth. Rationalize, rationalize, rationalize...

What are you going to do if she doesn't break up with him? Are you going to tell him at some point in the future? Or will you still keep it a secret, thinking it would be worse to tell him now that so much time has passed, even though you know she is lying to him?

Then again, why even ask this question? You already know the right thing to do.

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Thanks for the comments guys. I know she won't tell him since she literally threathened my penis in so many different ways that I believe her. I think I'm gonna stick with the ignorance is bliss, I wouldn't want to know myself.

I'm sure she's in for another round but I won't make the same mistake again.

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You should change your username and display picture. Stinson would have none of that. Your friend is unlucky to have ever met you.

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"You don't want girls to think you suck dick at fucking pussy"
-Seth (Superbad)

Why wouldn't you? You might as well go for it.

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Yeah, I think you're actually wrong there.

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Your friend trusted you. . . then you slept with his girlfriend and tried act like it isnt your fault.


Welcome to pussyville, population: you. On the left you'll see guy a nice rainbow and on your right is Brny Stinsn.


You should tell your friend what happened.

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"You don't want girls to think you suck dick at fucking pussy"
-Seth (Superbad)

Yeah, you did something foolish, learn from it and move on. It's not the end of the world, unless you make it so.

Don't worry about her justificating the whole deal, girls do that. And don't be surprised when she's gonna deny the whole thing and act like nothing happened, girls do that too.


How you're going to deal with it, is entirely up to you.

Morals, as fun as they are to debate about, aren't things you should let other people decide on.

Yea dude ignore the self richeous B.S that appears on this thread, you know, more than anyone knows, you fucked up its not important what other things are said to you.

"The Making of a man is how he deals with the situation, not the moment or cause, but the solution, is that, that defines you as a person."

In my opinion you should tell him. It will open up a can of worms but if your good friends you may get a black eye and you can work it through.

I say this because if he finds out from anyone else, especially her, your fucked, its the lesser of two evils to come clean.

Regards, Saint

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Ahh the forbidden fruit!! It's always the sweetest! Which would explain the best orgasm you've ever had.

Well don't feel too bad, I've been struggling desparately not to sleep with my friends wife! WIFE!!! But I haven't and I won't. It's just so F**KING tempting, especially when those dirty little whores are trying to lure you in and act all innocent about it. HA!

How would you feel if it happened to you?

Not stirring, just generally wanna know!

I think I would have kicked his ass real bad if it had been the other way around..

Told him though and gave him a free nutshot, we're good now.

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