So I fucked up and failed to escalate at the proper time. I just got soundly friend zoned when there was obvious obvious attraction. It happened so fast it kind of threw me off guard. Any good routines to get back into the "im gonna fuck you" zone.

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this is too short jits ... what zone 'were' you in? (explain)
what did you do wrong? (explain)
how does that end you in the friend zone? (explain)
and how are you so sure the attraction was obvious before this? (explain)


hard to help with such a short couple lines that doesnt explain much....but with more info, we will be able to give you a better reply as to what you can do from this point. surely, dont panic!!!!
hope to hear more of your story soon.
Cheers.

Get in that frame of mind, don't worry about techniques or where her head is. concentrate on yourself casanova.

Like First-Rate said - I need to know more before I can respond properly.

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Here is the run down... didn't have time for details before and was overwhelmed by the length of this shit. I will keep it as brief as possible.

Last friday I apologized to this HB9 that I had been quite rude to a few years ago. And we made up and chatted a bit.

Fast forward to this friday. I run into her at a club and play my standard cocky/funny push/pull game that I have been working lately. It was perfect and I posted a more detailed description earlier. She pretty much forced me into a day 2 and I was sure everything would be gravy.

Next day... She had mentioned she had just broken up with a guy and for some god awful reason he managed to show up while I was hanging out with her and her friends. It would have been no sweat except it turns out the kid was my best friend when I was 8 -10 years old. To make a very long story short things got derailed and I ended up not closing that night (mostly because she ended up wandering town in the rain while I drove home in her car...)

Next day she calls me up and wants to get dinner... so i go (maybe should not have.) After dinner she wants to hang out in her car (really?? it was a silver platter). For some reason instead of getting in the car and doing what I always do I kept feeling guilty about my old friend and hesitated. I was a huge fuck up so don't rub it in.

That night I get the friend zone speech and the worst words a pua can hear. "You know I'm not ready for anything yet, and besides, you are the one I can talk to" Now I don't mind being a nice guy but this was clearly only because I failed to escalate and killed my momentum. I am running "perfect internet game" right now and it seems to be working. So let me get some more advice so I can salvage this one and move on to my next target.

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i must say this part was WAY too short....how did she end up walking in the rain all night and you were in her car driving? i think you left out a huge part here...THOUGH it doesnt look like it matters after the rest of your story.

While I do think you may have been able to do things differently and not thought about your friend at age 8....there is NO reason at all to focus on that...its yesterdays news....throw it away!


If you watch Seinfeld, you may remember the show where the married couple broke up and Jerry called just to say "I'm there for you." --- that may be the angle you have to play for a very short period of time. If she really is upset about things, and if you really are just a friend....you may not be able to pull off your usual lines and tactics without upsetting the relationship created. So, it may be smart to get close to her from the friend angle, and then advance slowly bit by bit.......but dont wait too long. While this is a nice excuse to spend LOTS of time with her right after she broke up with the other guy----its a kiss of death if you are still a friend after a few months.

and ask for this kid you knew when you were 8.....if you DO care about his relationship, you need to stop thinking about this girl (you cant have both)....but if she ranks ahead of this old friend, then he must be put out of mind.
its your choice...but ONE must be done----cant have both!!
which will it be???
hope you can decide which one....GL
Cheers.

So i decided on a freeze out for a while. Gotta reset the relationship I think.

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Mission Accomplished End Thread.

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