I've been gaming a HB for a week or two. We'd arranged to meet in a club as that's where all our friends go. K closed her outside spent some time with her, everything was cool.

Went back in to the club, and it was like a switch had flipped and she was pretty much ignoring me, I wasnt going to chase so I went and hung out with a friend. Next thing shes with this other guy, it's blatently in front of me, and shes being all close with him, touching and stuff. I didn't pay attention tried not looking over, she was with him for a while, not sure if they kissed, but later she came to meet me outside before I left.

Now I was in two minds regarding what I should do, had she just been talking to other guys I wouldnt care, and would have just acted cool about it which was one option. But I kind of felt that this was a little too much and didnt want to come across as a push over after blatently doing this in front of me. So I acted a little blunt with her and she noticed I was annoyed, and she was all like "are you annoyed at me?" "ohh i think i know why youre annoyed"... I didn't say anything about it, just said "well yeh..." and dismissed it, said bye and left on pretty much neutral terms.

Just wondering whether you think this was the correct way to behave in this situation? I felt she needed to know that behaving like that way was not acceptable, hopfully without being a sucker for her jealousy tactics??

Thanks

Yea, I think she got what she wanted. She was shit testing you, and won! A girl that does that is looking for attention and she got you to bite the hook...in that situation, you should be gaming other girls, NOT as a reaction to seeing her do it because she would obviously see that...but, unless you were a thing, you should have walked in and did exactly what she was doing. As Mystery says, create a jealousy plot line!

Good providence!

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Sure, the best situation would have been if I beat her to the jealousy tactics. But I'm looking at what the best reaction is if they start doing this.

I agree I failed the test by biting, but hopfully not enough to ruin things. Maybe the best thing would have been to say bye without being blunt, as if I was saying it to a friend, bit of a freeze out so she doesnt know where she stands.

Just learning for next time.

Dont think i would have been blunt but i would have acted like i didn't really care. If she asked me if i was annoyed i would have replayed;

Me: No, why would i be?
Her:(Something along the lines of) Aww your just being a bit off thats why.
Me: Hmmm na just chatting with other people you know, one conversation really got me thinking, sorry i'm in my own wee world at the moment.
Her: O right (Then some crap that really doesn't matter)
Me: So how was your night? Anything more exiting than our kiss happen?
Her:(It doesn't really matter what she says, if she says she kissed someone else then id be polite dismissive with the thought process of that if she is putting out so easy do i really want it?)

Depending on her answer id go cave man and kiss her immediately, if she was being a bitch id be polite but dismissive and chat to other people.

I think by giving her a reaction she got what she wanted.

Regards, Saint

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sorry to jack buddies thread, but Im wondering the acting unaffected is suppost to be maintained? what I mean is, what are the odds that she is testing you vs. she isn't test you? Behaving unaffected no matter what the outcome is - Is this correct?

To add to last post:

How bout this scenario; Dorian_Gray was scene flirting with other girls. (Not in a club, but in a on-going setting like a class room) So then the HB decided to do the same. What is the next correct move for Dorian_Gray
to make?