Been reading this forum alot, and im pretty sure the consensus is night game is way easier than day game. but for some reason i am terrified of night game, yet i can walk up to a random stranger talk and hopefully get a number during the day no sweat.


anyone have any tips or words of wisdom for me to help get over this fear? i dont know why i have it

thanks all

the fear could be because girls have there 'bitch sheilds' on high aleart at night its their way of weeding out the drunks, AFCs and creeps they dont want to talk to as they expect to be approached in the nightclub and bar inviroment.
Most are also fully done up heels makeup and feel high value and they put on a common female playette persona so bring your energy up a little to match.
Could also be a fear of the drunken AMOGs,mixed sets, loud douchebags ,smelly loud enviroment ,costs...which dosent help the situation.

Just get a blow out as in go into your first set expecting to get rejected this takes the pressure of the first approach.an old trick is to hold something in your hand as it helps overcome nerves even if its a glass of water.Wear a new cheap wrist bracelet or necklace it will make you feel less serious about the whole thing and more out there just like a kid with a party hat.Do the numbers,after getting ignored or tested smile to yourself, look away and walk and dance of into the sunset NEXT even slightly dance as you walk down the road to the club will help you get into a fun state.
Learn to disconnect feelings from action and just do.
have fun!

To be honest, I've never experimented with day game. You're right, it does seem a like a hard mode. There's no alcohol, to initiate a social mood.
I just think, if you can master day game, then night game should be a breeze.

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