Yes, I been wanting this girl for a long time but feel into FZ.. well she is upset about so and so guy left her and got some other girl prego. Now she is talking about no more of that ethnicity men *she is of that ethnicity and i happen to also be same ethnicity* honestly this is bs to me because i would say she just messed with the wrong guys..

Really pisses me off i just want to say "I told you so and fuck that piece of shit dude" .

Do you play the tampon roll and let her bleed her sadness all over you? how would you handle this?

Please dont post that I am wack for wanting her, im just tired of being her friend support and i really want her.

weasel your way in or as they call it seduce her, be the tampon that listens like a rock who is strong and stable not wanting to smash anyone or feel her emotions , but keep trying to isolate her to yours or somewhere else depending on comfort for a chat and coffee with a false time constraint thrown in "I cant stay long" etc..
This would be the smoothest way to transition from where things are at now.

PYCO

First off - ignore.

The knows you're the guy to come to for support & friendship. If you want more - back off that role. Just say "I told you so" & leave her alone. Don't respond for a couple of days. She'll be texting you like a madman why you said that & why you didn't help her.

A girl ALWAYS knows to which guy she needs to go for help & support - but they never realise that you're feeling more than just friendship. So stop hurting yourself & back off the FZ. Just go on with your own life - let her come after you. Let her realise what she has done & what she is missing.

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Don't talk about her problems talk about her tits. If she is talking about her problems, aches and pains, girlfriend issues, school issues, work issues etc you are in the friend zone and she does not see you as a potential sex partner.

If she mentions a guy problem, ignore it and talk about her tits.

If she mentions a girlfriend problem, ignore it and talk about her tits.

If she talks about her cramps and bloating issues, ignore it and talk about her tits.

Basically show her that you are interested in her sexually and not interested in being another one of her girlfriends.

This


and srsly though: GFTOW

+1 - Blerp!

Ur stuck on one-itis __ move on.

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never been the shoulder to cry on. it never works out the way you imagine it to be. while you are listening to her problems she is going to go mess around with another guy and thank you for "being there" and "being a good friend" for/to her.

With the risk of being viewed as an asshole (you that is)

Tell her your hourly rate for therapy

2(?) Possible outcomes and how to handle them.

1) She instantly realizes your not the person to talk to regarding this and starts talking about something else (unlikely)

2) she gets offended, and instantly goes into a emotional rage. this is good even if it at the moment does not seem as, she considers you a friend, we often tend to forgive our friends, so this will give you and opportunity to "apologize" (as if!)

You ask her to meet you in person so you can "talk" she should agree, here is your chance she is emotional, fragile and mmm ohh boy time for you to be the rebound fuck.

Once you meet up with her, DO NOT apologize, DO NOT talk about that other dude, talk about how you feel about her talking smack all the time, how it makes u hurt bla bla bla~ now you've turned the tables, tell her she means something to you, seeing her in pain makes you sad, tell her she's special to you and means something to YOU keep talking hows shes something to you, wait for the signal, and kiss her, fuck her do what you want to do, then end it and forget her.

SF

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send her this.

BTW dont put shit like this in the PUA lounge. This thread is General question material, there is always some new ppl willing to give the advice your looking for there. This story is posted multiple times weekly in the General Questions and there is an FAQ in the General Questions that already has this question answered. People will give u rude responses bc this is in the wrong sub forum and we've heard the question on what to do 100 times.

PUA Lounge is for theories and the such, keep oneitis questions out of the lounge thx.

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