Met her at a party and kiss closed. So days after the party i Texted her, was funny and kept the flirting going on, then set up the date. (didn't officially say DATE which is one of my mistakes because its a good way for knowing she wants things to escalate)

1st meet up: cheap date

took her to a bar, got a booth. SHe was shy so i broke the ice, made her laugh, socialized and teased, then thought i could take her to the movie theatre, but better yet i told her," you know what I'm a movie guy and I'm sure i have something back at my place you'll like. we could go there instead and be more comfortable". She accepts. We go to my place i put in the movie, turn off the lights, we both sit on my bed and go in for the kiss. She first backs away and says, "i don't know you that well" i responded, " then get to know me" went in again, laid her back and made out with her passionately through the movie. Movie ended and she went home.

Every time i tried to escalate she would stop me. (LMR!) I would back off and start over but nothing. Maybe it was her knowing nothing about me, i'm not sure.
Any ideas why Anybody???

2nd meet up: much more to the point

The Plan was to go to an iceskating rink and then i was going to take her for a drink somewhere nice, and we were first meeting up at my house. She took so long getting ready that when she got to my house the skating rink was closed, so i invited her in. (i had a couple shots in me) so as soon as we get in my room she sits on my bed really tired and i just went in for the kiss. She backs away. I kiss her neck, cheek, hug her, and lay back with her. Little by little i got the kiss, but what i realized was that she liked for me to beg for it and was actually gaming me! I then changed my strategy, my body language, and would make her beg for it. Finally we escalated; I pulled her bra down, Made out with her tits, she put her hand down my pants, Grabbed my dick, I put my had down her pants, grabbed her ass and was going to continue pulling down and then BOOM! LMR!! AGAIN! WTF!

I plan on asking her out for this weekend but i want to sex close and dont know how to work around LMR!!!!ANY IDEAS!!!!?????
Where should i take her or does it even matter at this point? and if i invite her back to my place after will it be too obvious that i want a another shot to have sex?

Wow, you are focusing on getting a sex close like it's the only thing that matters, and not even considering whether the constant advancement is turning her off, and you haven't considered the fact that you haven't got her to a point where she wants you to do it - you're just forcing it on her, and in my opinion, given that she's shy, she's only giving in to you to see where its going. She's not exactly begging for you to rip her clothes off yet.

I've had girls simply disrobe completely in front of me first, while I sat there clothed or partially. And we weren't even having sex yet, or soon after. I'm not saying every guy should do this (I'm known for being a nudist, and a nude model, some girls actually feel comfortable with this) and I'm not saying this happens with every girl, nor that it would happen with those same girls in every situation.

All I'm saying is that theres a very wide spectrum of possibilities here that you have to open your mind to. There are things that can happen that will be more exciting than any of the sex you've ever had, and were sex to happen after that, it would be more exciting still.

ALWAYS STOP BEFORE THE GIRL. Tell her "we should stop." Do tis a couple of times and she will literally try to seduce you.

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