Okay so me:
I grew up being fat and kind of nerdy. I was picked on a lot so my self confidence is shit.
I have absolutely zero game, I say the wrong thing, I'm horribly shy... I've made eye contact with girls in clubs for like 30+ seconds.

Well anyway I have a crush on I'm thinking a 9 and I met her online. So i'm trying to learn as much as I can so that I don't blow it before it's over. Though, it's very possible I already have.

My whole approach to women before this, was to work on my physical appearance and just let girls come to me. Lol working out is a whole lot easier than approaching a cute girl.

One-itis....

Is it something to be ashamed of? I think bigger part of this board started off the PUA way 'cause of the woman they loved. But in the end, after picking up so many girls wouldn't You want to meet "the one"?

Just saying this 'cause somehow I get the bad feeling that PUAs on this board just look down on those who suffer from one-itis.

I'm new to the PUA stuff Mav-, and I got here after losing my gf as you know. I do want to find "the one". Yet, having one-itis seems to me the best way to lose "the one". One-itis lowers your value. If you quit the PUA stuff once you're in a LTR because you find "the one", you might lose her. I'm not saying you should cheat on her, but definitely use the PUA tool box to keep her: attracting other women can help (DHV). What do you think?

_________________
On the Road to Manhood, my new learning journal: http://bit.ly/TEVapM
(My old learning journal http://bit.ly/eYRWL4)

one itis bites hard. I don't care how I get rid of it whether it's landing her or landing 10 of her friends I just want it gone forever. I'm very determined to make sure it doesn't happen again though.