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PostPosted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 4:07 am 
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I've read about this in an online article years ago by a top-dating coach(cant remember his name).

But he's basically saying that a woman's friends have massive amounts of influence over her.

For instance,if gaming a 3 set and the girl's attracted to you and really feeling you.

But if 1 of her friends disapprove of you,for whatever reason,you're done!

Once 1 of her friends girl code her to reject you-it's over.

Im currently going through similar-peer group shit with my MILF gf where she actually ditched me for her friends.

Her friends convince her that I wasnt letting her have her freedom.

Total BS,but that just goes to how how much influence a woman's friend have over her that she could be convinced in a heart beat that Im not giving her freedom.

To top it off,my MILF gf ends up lashing out on me for not liking her friend.

Lot of ppl may say she doesnt respects me.

Cool with that view because I dont think she respect me much.

But generally,we can agree on a girl's friends having major influence.

This doesnt happen with guys.

If Im gaming a girl and my buddy doesnt like her-Im still gaming her!

All men would continue gaming the girl.

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Hell yeah bro, I see what your saying, why It's always appealing to the group when you open a set.

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@PurpleLight-For real.

Thats why when entering a set,you must always acknowledge everyone in the group.

You canot be a social violater by just stepping to the OYD(object of your desire)try game her while rejecting her friends.

Your ass will get blown out in a heart beat.

One of her friends will go,"Hey Karen,let's go dance",and pull the girl away.

Thats it,set ruined.

Good point PurpleLight.

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@PurpleLight-For real.

Thats why when entering a set,you must always acknowledge everyone in the group.

You canot be a social violater by just stepping to the OYD(object of your desire)try game her while rejecting her friends.

Your ass will get blown out in a heart beat.

One of her friends will go,"Hey Karen,let's go dance",and pull the girl away.

Thats it,set ruined.

Good point PurpleLight.

Love System's "violation theory" is the greatest article on this,and how not to blow yourself out in set by violating.

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@PurpleLight-For real.

Thats why when entering a set,you must always acknowledge everyone in the group.

You canot be a social violater by just stepping to the OYD(object of your desire)try game her while rejecting her friends.

Your ass will get blown out in a heart beat.

One of her friends will go,"Hey Karen,let's go dance",and pull the girl away.

Thats it,set ruined.

Good point PurpleLight.

Love System's "violation theory" is the greatest article on this,and how not to blow yourself out in set by violating.
K, I agree with you again, women are influencd a lot more than men, and easier, probably because it's a sense of security. That's why you often hear " O my friends like you" Massive IOI, if your dating a girl, automatically makes me feel more comfortable.

Girls also use it as a form of jealousy, in a sly way, some don't want their friends getting a piece of you when they can't. That's why, when approaching sets of 2 or more, it is important to either have a wing a lot of the time, or make sure you include all targets, enjoy the situation and make it comfortable.

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Damn right about that Chel'.

Once a girl says her friend like you,there's no possible way you can go wrong.

Women are very gullible and easily influenced and led astray.

Thats why I can repect a woman who says 'no' to her peers,and mean it.

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Damn right about that Chel'.

Once a girl says her friend like you,there's no possible way you can go wrong.

Women are very gullible and easily influenced and led astray.

Thats why I can repect a woman who says 'no' to her peers,and mean it.
True say, and well said, but how many women do say no to their crew? Not a lot, well the ones I've come across!

Been doing a lot of reading today seen as we're snowed in London, reading being on NLP, it's made me try and think of women a bit differently. Maybe read up on NLP if you haven't and have some time.

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I've always been fascinated by NLP & psycology in general.

So what are you up to on the NLP readings Chel'.?

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I've always been fascinated by NLP & psycology in general.

So what are you up to on the NLP readings Chel'.?
Well, I'm still learning, but it's something I want to learn and get good at as soon as.

Concentrating on body language at the minute, trying to see if I can tell that a woman is confident in herself, shy, by actions her actions, and posture, before I even approach, so I know whether to go in a bit more direct, or to ease off an go in-direct.

What do you know about NLP? Have you studied it a all? I'm interested.

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