ok so yesterday i was given valuable advice from a girl (my cousin; and i can say in all honesty she is most definately a SHB); shes had many famous celebrities trying it with her including johnny depp...

So she over heard me talking to a girl, and was curious...

She saw my facebook wall and asked how i talk to girls to get them to post on my walls like that (She knows im not a player but she was curious anyways) i told her a few natural routines i would do and some pua routines, and she smiled and said im very sly with girls to how i can get what i want

I disagreed with her and she said that i could get any girl in a club from my looks alone, but she doesnt want me to get big headed about this; but she also mentioned that i need to be more natural when it comes to girls ... she told me if a guy opened up with one of the openers i would use she would think hes just a player, so i asked her...

"if you were to be approached by a guy in a club, what would you like them to say to you"

She told me eye contact is very important (obviously) so when you get eye contact just smile, if they smile back then carry on dancing; after a few minutes say something along the lines of "I couldnt go home without talking to the most gorgeous girl in the club tonight" tell her friends that your just gonna borrow her for a second then just sit her down and talk for a while...

So i am going to try this, next time i go clubbing; she said the more natural you are the better so im just gonna go full natural game and just tone down everything else and see how it goes...

The one thing that may be different though is that she is 25, been clubbing loads so she knows what guys are like (she even told me this, but mentioned that me and 2 other of my guys cousins are different from guys when it comes to relationships; even though i shouldnt get in one right now because 18 is a time to have fun and get experience)

and being her it would be inevitable to even not get approached by 10 guys in one night... but she never allows guys to buy her drinks, i told her if i told a girl in a club shes gorgeous most of them are stuck up though and just tell me to go away because im just like every other girl though..

So im still in consideration on whether to try her way a few times or just stick with game, im sure theres no pain in trying different things once in a while right?

think this is typical of girls thinking they know what they want.
maybe your looks would carry you thru but you are putting the ball in her court and giving her higher value than you in the opener which to me is crazy.

i like to come in under the radar and casually open as im standing with mates nearby or outside at the smoking area and almost always use an opinion opener to a group. this way you can ignore/neg target lightly while talking to her friends and make her work for your approval. in group sets- especially larger and mixed sets, never open the target, open one of her friends or one of the guys in the group. this way you dont have to open her at all, she will open you if all her friends think your cool, showing you have good social intuition.

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OMG! I agree with your cousin. When I was about openers and routines, my results were horrible. Then I went more natural and my results just sky rocketed.

Yesterday, hooked up with a girl and I opened her with saying the flower in her hair is so cute.

yeah, a compliment on something she is wearing is fine but i wouldnt go with the 'your the most gorgeous girl in the room' line. its very afc and she is guaranteed to have heard it before. it will make her fee good about herself but maybe not about you.

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True say, especially if she is stunning HB10, but if your getting eye contact then she likes you, most the guys that say that just dont even get eye contact or IOIs

If you dont get that compliment openers are good for trial and error, but im gonna try use these for now and see where it gets me

let me know how it goes down in field m8

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- Giacomo Casanova

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