Sure, so for example, it could be like this:
Location 1: Tapas place / Wine tasting / Pub that serves food / etc. Some place where you could just get a drink, but which also serves food. It makes it less like WE'RE GOING TO DINNER OMG DATE TIME. Casual, not super pricy. Split the bill or flip a coin for it, for fun.
Location 2: Carnival / fun fair / video arcade / bowling / bar with live bands / club
Location 3: chilled out lounge or bar / dessert cafe / any lower-energy venue that has comfortable seating i.e. couches so you can sit next to each other and TOUCH.
The basic principle is to respike your attraction levels in location 1 with some teasing, banter, DHV stories, jokes and so on, have a few drinks and relax, and then start in on your qualification and comfort building (i.e. get her talking about herself).
Location 2 is when you start ramping up the kino, getting her heart going a bit and creating some ENERGY. It's better than sitting in the same place for hours having a boring interview-style date.
Then location 3 is where you take that energy and turn it SEXUAL by sitting close together. You want to k-close in either location 2 or definitely by 3. If you use push-pull kino correctly, then the k-close should be a natural step in your escalation chain and you should already know she'll be receptive to it because she's exhibited compliance throughout as you've moved from friendly to sexual touching. Finally, location 3 should be as close to your house as possible, so that you can swing by for 5 minutes to lend her that CD you were talking about, but then she's gotta run cuz you have shit to do tomorrow
The principle is that the multiple locations have a "time-warp" effect that makes it seem like she's known you for longer. This shortcuts the 7 hour rule down to about 3 or so, which is always good. Plus, it's more fun, shows you know places and what's going on, and it takes her through a roller-coaster of different sensations and emotions, which are anchored to you.
Don't forget to wear a condom!
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i think i'll take that advice. But here's a thing...when she was drunk she told she wanted to forget an ex-boyfriend. Is it relevant?
she suggested having a coffee at a cafe near home but i know great pubs downtown with a view to the river. Should I accept her suggestion or stick with mine?