| Hey guys, I am quite new at this. I have actually just started learning of pickups , and I was around the bookstore until i saw THE GAME on my local bookstore. I am from Singapore, coming from a place where it is a small island, and the girls here, in fact most of the people here, are very conservative,meaning, they don't usually respond well to pick-ups . Mostly many of them, are very shy and just claim pick-ups too weird. However i know there are still many other ways.
FIRST DAY ON THE FIELD TRYING THIS OUT!
I was out with my friends to a club where they had a dance competition. I was with a whole bunch of friends, some who i do not actually know. As i remembered in the book, saying about , to be in the centre of attraction, so me and my buddies, went crazy, and eventually we was the most craziest of all. We were dancing and enjoying so loud, that it attracts the attention of the other crowds who eventually join in the fun.
While dancing, a girl appeared out from the corner, and started dancing beside me, i didnt know the girl anyway, but, somehow i decided to try out and be brave to open and start talking to her. Im not sure, whether this is part of the routine, but, i just started to have a conversation to her, by being myself and i smiled at her when we had one first 3 secs of eye contact.
(I heard from a friend, that laughter is the best seduction so i gave her a smile, and followed by some small laughter to indicate that we are having some fun)
Me : Hi , you sure look like your having fun.
Girl : yeah, this is amazing.
Me : (give her a smile again)
Girl : HAHA , you're cute. (Seriously, she said that)
(at this point of time, i can see that we are having some connection going on.)
Girl : so Whats your name ? (IOI)
Me : Call me Stoner .
Girl : HAHA !
(during this time, i was having fun, at the same time trying to kino her )
Just nice a favourite club hit song was up, and so i looked at her direction , and say YEAH! ,
Girl: (looking shocked, she loved the song as well) YEAHH!
What i did was a grab her by the waist, a few times, and pull back, then i did it again, it seemed that she didn't mind.
She was a a little bit drunk, and she had a jug on her hand.
Girl: Im a little bit drunk.
Me : Its okay. (acting normal)
We danced beside each other and eventually i dont know whether this thing works, but when im dancing, i tend to tap her on the waist to the beats of the song. This way i think, she will view me as someone, who is actually enjoying the song, rather then trying to hit on her.
I eventually stopped after awhile and just keep holding on to her waist. She was then enjoying it, and we grind on the dancefloor.
She was getting a bit imbalanced.
(this point of time, i said something in a deep voice, hoping to catch her somewhere)
Me : Dont worry, baby, I'll catch you when you fall.(which she did fall eventually but it was just a small fall , after i get her up)
Girl : Im not actually like this, but I am so loving this right now.
I don't know what makes her did this, but she was all over me right now, smiled at me, and then begin to kiss me once. Then everything was all between us, me , her and the dancefloor. We smooched each other infront of all the rest, even my friends saw it. But the more she realised it, the more she did wanted it. I felt like it was my lucky day. We had that till about 5-7 mins of non stop dancing and kissing. We stopped and hugged each other awhile, after she said.
Girl : I going to outside to smoke.
Me : Okay, (i didnt ask for her number, because i wanted her to ask for herself, i didnt get it but it didnt matter to me, because i had got a whole lot of fun trying out something i had just learned, however i did say.
Me : It was nice meeting you. Kiss goodbye.
Girl : Come here you, here's your kiss goodbye .
(she kissed me on the cheek, and then on the mouth )
Me : Take care, Bye !
I went back with my friends
I noticed a girl which i didnt know exactly, but she was my friend's friend.
She was sitting down and not dancing to the music , i decide to ask her to dance with me .( know that i didnt know she was a teacher, or how old she was, barely even talked with her)
Me : Why are you not dancing?
Hot Teacher : Im tired.
Me : Cmon we're all having fun. Dance with me
Hot Teacher : Its okay.
Me : Ohhh. ( this point of time, i totally negged her. I went to have fun infront of her, and showed her how fun it is, until a few minutes later she came to me .
Hot Teacher : Here i am, standing up , are u happy now ? (with that voice trying to prove to her, that she was the outstanding type)
Me : Great, Lets dance!
I hit her like what i did to the girl, tap her to the beats, and then slowly bring her closer to me. I knew this point of time, that there were her friends which i thought would be a distraction, surrounding her, even during the time she was sitting down. I decide to bring her to the bar and have a chat with her.
I tried Style technique, or i think i was, the beauty is a common thing routine, and she was totally smiling after i said it. I asked her some info about herself, and she was answering me with no hesitations, i guess we have already build that connection there. She was a teacher, teaching at a college, but she refused to tell me what her age was.I told her my age. IM 19 BTW. We danced of the dance floor again, and she sticked with me all the way, even with her friends, beside her, so it was like she was so comfortable with me, dancing with me , and i had a pat from some guys who was eyeing on her before, like saying ( you lucky bastard) but i knew it wasn't just luck, it takes a thing called effort. ) We danced till the end of the day. But i didn't get to close her, i did however managed to dance with someone, who was hot and someone who many was eyeing for and managed to give her a kiss on the cheek.
Thats about it. I found out she was actually 30 years old from her friends. XD Im 19 . She didn't drink, so i knew, she was doing it because she wanted to , so i guess she was so comfortable with me.
Thats all the story i had for a night i enjoyed. I actually now feel a little bit more open, and more confident to speak with girls. Am Learning more.
Guys please comment on this and tell me what i could have improved on better THANKS!
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