I really feel like this advice would work out great for ya. I mean if you push too hard while shes being unresponsive she might get annoyed or bored. I think you should just relax a bit and be assertive but not aggressive.
You did said that you were friends on fb right? Well I think that you should go out there and just have a good time meeting people.
take lots of pictures and upload the ones that really show how much fun you're having onto facebook. Once she sees how much fun you and everyone around you are having then maybe she'll start being all talkative again... and who knows? If you're out there meeting people, you might find someone better. Just put her out of your mind and have fun

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Dude I waited it out.. she texts me two days later saying " Hey im soo sorry about these past few days.. I kno your probaly mad at me but ive been busy in the studio doing this music. i've been slaking so i had to go hard. I miss you though i hope all is well " I textd her bak saying" nah lol do you" she texts bak sayin " ok?" i wrote " well im driving ill talkin to you laterr" " she wrote well i guess ill do like you said an keep doing me lol..sooo latas"... An ever since then shes been putting up the same ignoring me front"...arrggg.. I like this chick a lot..Help

i dont understand? she texted you back and it sounds like you blew her off.

so she gives you attention and you 'punish' her for it?

Be normal, text her back and just say "i really dont like texting, not good at it. lets hang out, when are you free? x"

if you like then start acting like it, you cant game from texting it doesnt work.

meet her and just keep up some sexual tension, kino/compliance and just vibe.

teh sexual tension and kino, i dont even mean seduction community concepts. just make sure you nice and friendly. everyone likes to be touched.

dont self sabatage this. its the worst feeling in the world.

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LOL

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One important thing to remember about women when they compliment you, be as sincere in your response as the compliment was. Women want to feel GOOD complimenting you, that you appreciate their effort and trust me, they will reciprocate.

If you're always trying to be Cocky and Funny when she gives you a sincere compliment, she's just gonna say fuck it because you're only gonna respond with something that seems lame to her. She wont even bother. Reward her good behavior. Good girl

Getting too attached to a girl...in general is usually never a good idea unless she's just that fucking awesome. Even then, it's a bad move to show your hand too much.

where was the help lol? im lookin for an answwer to my current situation.. reasd the entire thread

Yeah, lol. Sorry, I tend to go on rants about things. Im caught up to speed now though!

With your last text exchange, it seemed like you let a little bit of your displeasure show. Regardless of how mad you are at her, voicing it and making her feel bad rarely if ever gets a favorable response. Women love living in their own little reality where everything is alright. If you can put it past you and pick things up where they left off, it doesn't get weird.

Another thing I've stopped doing is voicing (Well, text) that im doing something and that im ending the conversation. Over text, some people can get the wrong message from that. Just wait till a later time and pick up the conversation again or talk to her another time. Being a little untimely with your responses can go a long way. But totally ignoring them is another.

When she got back in contact with you, you did kinda miss a good opportunity to set something up with her. Now, unless she texts you again, you need to take initiative and get in contact with her. Either way, take a few days off and take a breather. Separating yourself from the situation for a little period of time never hurts. IF she still hasn't getten back with you by then, shoot her a text, make small talk and set something up.

I agree with Slywalker and Fender. Just forget about her a bit and game on, worry about your own shit. In a few days or weeks she'll start missing the piss out of you and start texting. Plus she may actually be really busy recently.

It seems like the freezeout worked. I mean, she likes you.

Now you gotta pretend that you are cool with stuff. Just dont freeze her out too hard or punish her (as said above) when she shows interest. But dont just jump at it either. Reluctantly admit that you like her too. She is treading carefully, give them a finger and they take the whole arm plus a bit of the torso and keep calling even if it doesnt work out. Thats what shes used to. So let her drag you into it. let her work a bit for it. Not hard to get but a bit reluctant. I didnt wanna fall for you but you were irresistable is what you wanna show.

Best of luck man!

So wat your saying is keep on calling her at night almost every night because that's what she's used to me doing?.. I called her Saturday an she textd me saying she was driving an she'd talk to me lata just like I did her lol. I texted her Sunday night an got no response... Monday I did nothing.. It's now Tuesday.."/

I've had the same problem as you on a few dates I went on last week. Dates went great, K-closed each, got texted after the date how great things went, next day the fish gets cold. I've been texting statements and open ended questions. Waiting to see what works.

Basically... But Now i change my mind and add CALIBRATE.

If she doesnt pick up the phone, that means that you are calling her too often. Call her about as often as she picks up the phone. If you get the feeling that you might be calling her too often, you probably are...

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Alright well thank you ezo and thank you all for the advice.. It's been two days since I contacted her, ima just give her a call tonight I'm sure she'll answer.. Pray forbme guys lol.. She has a great effect on me however I'm sure someone else out there has a greater.. Thanks guys wish you luck

P.s. It's amazing how this post got soo many views an replys