Well today when someone told me that i cant and i was hopeless I felt a emotion . The emotion was not a really good one but a powerful one . The emotion was to prove that motherf_____in b______d wrong . I have frequently in life beed told that I was good for nothing and that i am a ' retard ' but if you look at it these emotions are the reason why i am here . These emotions govern my purpose of life , each and everyday when i get up i think these things . These are not only good but have made do things which my teachers , councillors and pyschologists think is imposible . I have done nearly super-human things because of these few emotions they are the strongest things i feel . So I was thinking if i can put this into pick up my inner game would improve and i can get more girls

There will ALWAYS be strings attached. Just because you read or heard people say to no longer listen to the bad things people say about you, you should not be ignorant either. You said that this is a long term issue, so in your case, it's not a matter of ignoring the bad things that people say to you, but to listen to them instead! I know people say that you shouldn't change for anyone, but if every single damn person tells you the same thing and puts you down, then that means you MUST change yourself.

Take each problem apart and analyze where you went wrong. Put yourself in their shoes instead. Then all you need is the balls to accept that they were correct and proceed with the changes. If people say you're fat, don't just sit there and think about how to ignore them and become more confident because it will ALWAYS come back at you. So what's the solution? Go out and build muscle.

Don't try and build up your balls now to ignore the shit from others you've heard all your life and going out gaming on girls without knowing what you're doing and ending up getting MORE hurt. Because who knows, this time a girl you've never met can tell you the exact same thing you've been told before and then you'll really believe there's something wrong with you.

So I urge you to first fix your problems, whatever they are, and then start gaming.

Well I agree you need to prove those bastards wrong and make them eat their own words . I think hate helps you sarge and i am gonna incorporate that in my game

Haha no, hate will destroy all of your game. What I meant was not to hate back, but to CHANGE based on what so many people told you. There is a point where you have to accept what people have told you and change yourself based on that. In this case, you're trying to run away from the real truth. Why is it the real truth anyways what those bastards tell you, you may ask? The real truth is that when one person says you're retarded, another says the same thing and then pretty much everyone says it as well, it's actually true. Come on man, don't make it more complicated than it is. You said it yourself; that people usually treat you this way. What hurts the most is that there are so many people that treat you that way that it is no longer acceptable to hate back, but to look deep within yourself and change.

The cure is neither ignorance or hate, but to listen and change. (In YOUR case of course)

Well no not really . They never told me i would change but told me that i will never change ( and i keep proving those motherfuckers wrong or try to ) .

Yeah, I get shit too, too much today in fact. I feel ya

I'd love to hear more about the 'super-human' feats you've accomplished with your dark side of the force emotions.

Well let me list a few of them :


When i was 11 i could not read and write (learning disablity don't ask ) . One day a few bullies came and tried to take my case and when i somehow overpowered them they told me that i can never read and write . I fucking took this personally and in 4 months could read and write despite my disablity . What motivated me ? Negetive emotions

Till I was 14 I used to pass my exams on nothing but grace marks and writers . I was teased for that and took that personally and now i have the record in economics (highest in the college ) .


Well for most of my life i used to get ragged and now i rag the raggers .


These are some examples . I know these are small-things but because some people are just plainly unlucky they have to put in a huge amount of effort just to be like others . Imagine if you get these emotions into the game than what would happen

Nice. You sound like a worker but your examples above aren't really about 'negative emotions' are they? Sure, you might have been pissed off while those bullies shook you around but you probably didn't sit there figuring out how to read so you could somehow shake those bullies up with your reading prowess. I'm willing to bet that as you began your reading/writing odyssey, you probably enjoyed what you were doing; You were bettering yourself.

Just keep doing what you're doing. It seems to be working. But I really don't think there's any reason to be fixated on one emotion alone. You've moved beyond 'negative emotions' and you can't even admit to yourself. This is the nature of emotions. . . it's always flowing and evolving. If it didn't, I don't believe you could have progressed as you have.

Accept it . . . it's OK. You can be an INCREDIBLE person without any negative emotions at all. If what you wrote is true, in practice, you ALREADY do this. You already allow your emotions to evolve and transcend. Once you can truly admit this, I bet you will laugh, laugh, laugh, laugh . . .

I'm quite impressed with your history. . .

If you'd like to leverage your initial "negative emotions" towards the game . . . well, I bet you already know that you'll need to allow your initial emotions to transcend.

There is an approval of others people subconsciously need. Until it is pointed out, we care of what others think. I use to be that way. I had severe disabling asthma. I couldn't go out to play with other kids. I wasn't able to go out ad light fireworks, I had to stay inside my house and watch. I lived no life. Kids picked on me ad I would come home and cry. Then I got an epiphany about it. I had been so caught up about what others think about me I never think about myself. Once that happened I conquered my asthma, became a bodybuilder, state wrestler,a d multiple area athlete. There is o such things as "Negative Emotions" they all serve you a purpose. Some are meant to drive us, some to put our lives in order. Once you think for yourself and not live through others opinions you will be the man.

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Lets get together, make some bad decisions.

Well to do what others do i had to work . Kind of had no choice their . Well it was frustration mixed with a weird kind of hate (negative emotion ) which made me improve myself . Well I have a lot to prove and I still have to make those bastards shut up who still mock me . So their is plenty of hate in me

Haven't you heard of the term "sweet revenge"? Focus on the sweet . . .

Meeting and fucking chicks is easy, easy, easy. If it wasn't easy, those toothless drug addict morons could never fuck. But they do . . .

Unless you allow yourself to transcend beyond this petty crap, you'll find yourself dipping into the same holes that those toothless drug addict morons are fucking.