~ The same moves that get you quick same night seductions are the same moves that will occasionally get you called creepy (key word occasionally)
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In the first 30 seconds after meeting a new woman - when there is that first pause in the conversation - have you ever held seductive "face contact", quickly snuggled up close and then put out your hand for her to grab. And when she grabbed your hand you held on and didn't pull away, so she didn't either. It was ON just like that!
Later back at your place she told you she has never had anyone look at her like that. And when you grabbed her hand she just knew you guys had a connection. She mentioned that they way it all went down...it was so sexy. Like a movie.
Yes, sometimes you are only making attraction that was already there official (aka she liked you already - but still, you might as well make it ON fast and not clown around in these situations) and sometimes the boldness of these moves creates attraction and yeah, sometimes it's a quick blowout
So why doesn't the average guy do this?
Because sometimes you will do the exact same things I just mentioned and a girl will imply that it's creepy (maybe with a facial expression or by moving away) - still nothing is verbalized so it's really no biggie. Now I don't have time to go over what girls ACTUALLY mean by the term creepy -
as in the girl who goes to Cancun and her orbiter guy friends ask her "so how was the trip?" And she says - ew, the guys there were so creepy and aggressive. Only to find out later she fucked said (so called) creepy guys.Oops!
So just to clarify I don't advocate being creepy, only to RISK the fact that a girl might imply that you are at some point. Sometimes it's a test, sometimes she doesn't like you, and that's cool. This style of game ASSUMES that you are not creepy for real. Ask a friend if you are unsure.
IMO, guys only act overly social because they are scared of creepy. They silence their seductive side. The seductive side is important. There is this myth that you need good looks, long hair and chiseled features to act seductive. The truth is you can be fat and short and be seductive. That's because sexual tension is an "energy" not a certain physical feature.
Anyway if you NEVER hold seductive face contact, quickly get close and hold onto a girls hand you will never be called CREEPY. Congratulations. But you just might not get as many quick seductions as you could. That is what I mean by risk creepy.
We get so much practice being social - and along the way coaches advocate calibration and pushing through the blowouts. Well, it's no different with being seductive. YOU NEED PRACTICE. If you are coming off creepy with your EC and proximity you need to work on that. But you won't ever improve if you never practice because you are scared of being called creepy.
The community has tons of social experience. Now we need more seductive practice. It's a deadly combination....But of course you still use your social skills to start and facilitate conversations when needed.
too may people read stuff and take it to the extreme -60 said to never talk, 60 says to creep girls out, - come on guys, there is no 1 method ... use what works for you and discard the rest, if something works better for you, use that ... I can only convey what has worked for me in the past - if it works for you cool
take care,
sixty
ps: 9 out of 10 times creepy just means she doesn't like you, not that you are actually creepy