im a regular clubber, with average chance of 1 in 25 (this depends on my mood, what club i go to, whether im well prepared, eye contact, whether i go for very hot ones or normal ones and couple of other factors) .

i have seen many guys / hot girls out in the nightclub most of them seem to know each other already and are there together .. my question is why would someone take his girl to a night club where the music is loud( extremly loud), very dark, people are honry and drunk and taking drugs! and ofcourse she is half naked and its 2 in the morning!

do guys do it cuz they have no other option? is it because the girl is in charge ?

when i go out i see nearly half of the pretty girls are with guys... but do they all really get to sleep with them ? i cant get my head around this.

I wouldn't a first date to a club. You need to find a fun activity where you guys can chat and get to know each other. The people at the club are either unattached, attached for a while or there for an event ie. birthday. You can take her to the club once she becomes your gf and there is no need for talking lol jk

Girls like music, girls like drink, to dance, make out and girls like sex. Chances are if they're going to a club with a guy, all 5 of these will take place.

Some girls want their BF's clubbing with them for comforting reason, or they see you as an alpha model and want to show you off without being obvious, that your hers!

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because it's fun.

and in regards to not taking a girl to a club on the first date, i don't really agree. just make sure the club you take her to has area's where it isn't so loud. find a club with a chill area. i've had awesome success with places like this.

All the clubs I've been to have music blasting making the only way to communicate via yelling at each other. The only place that I can think of where you might have a decent convo is the smoking area which is outside. GL in wintertime freezing your ass off

Go to a bar/lounge, drink, music, dance floor and a lounge to chill. Best bet!

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