Hi!

Okay, heres the story: I met a girl 4 weeks ago for the first time (we've been chatting online for a year or so, just once a month or something, after she undeliberately added me on facebook (she tought I was someone else, and we started talking).

When we met it was almost as if we knew eachother from way back, and the chemistry was great! Since the day we met, we have been studying together, watched movies, been to the gym etc... And talked almost every day. The problem is, she has a boyfriend, in her home town (she just moved to my city to study).

When we have watched movies, we are spooning and she is very cosy... no kissing, but alot of cuddling. Last time I was going to spend the night, but after a while she straight out said I couldnt, because she knew she would cheat on her boyfriend with me if I stayed. So I choose to be a gentleman, and took a cab home. She has even said that if we are drunk together, she'd most likely kiss me or more...

Now, I got a few questions/worries.

1. I want her to get rid of her boyfriend and be with me, how?!

2. I know for sure that she likes me very much, but I don't want to fall in the friendzone while she still has a boyfriend. How do I avoid so?

3. How should I act? Like I'm not that interested? Should I tell her I am really interested??


Hope you guys can help me, I really haven't felt such strong feelings for a girl in years!!


(sorry if my english sucks, I'm norwegian).



//alex

Hey man,

If i were you.. this is what i would do...

Obviously you know she s into you more than friends. To me the clue, she has given it to you... since she told you she would probably hookp up with you and do more while drunk.

why not go out with her have a few drinks and let that barrier between you and her become unexistant? Im not saying to get her drunk.. but obviously that feeling of being scared she ll cheat on her bf prevents her from hooking up with you. so if i were you, go out clubbing, make her dance with you, make the tention build up and then make a move.

i think once the two of you hook up, since you dont only have sexual tension, also many things you like to do together, she ll understand you r great for her.

first off how long have they been together, dont go ruining happy homes. if they dont seem to have a serious relationship when your cuddling during a movie kiss her neck or something maybe a little bit, if she in to that lol

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See her less often.

When you do see her, be fun and cocky and sexual. Go out to bars or clubs with her and some friends, dance around, slap her ass playfully. Game other women in the venue and come back to her later.

If you hang out with her too much and don't keep a sexual vibe going, you'll get LJBFed. If you maintain the frame that other women are after you and you're higher value and more fun than her current BF, she will ditch him for you.

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