I thought I would spread some insights about PU with stories and ideas. For those who have a hard time understanding some things about PU, hopefully these stories clear the skies for you and help you improve your game; or at least understand it better.

It is probably better if you are an AMOG, or/and have social proof, preselection or a lot of DHV but if you don't have these, do not fear. It will still help you understand more about the game and encourage you have some of the traits above.

Hopefully these real life examples/experience can help you understand.


---

The Chase

Recall when you were a child and you saw a crow appear infront of you. At this moment you feel a great urge, desire, adrenaline, and excitement to try and catch that crow. But before you could it would get away, barely. It was so close, yet so far. You remind yourself that you will get it NEXT TIME, everytime. You are left with good intentions of getting that crow in the future.

NOW

Picture those pigeons that do not give a fuck if you are a feet away from them. You know you can catch it if you wanted to but feel no desire or urge to. Why is it that you would with the crow but not the pigeon? Simple. "You want what you can't have". You know the pigeon is always there and way too easy, so you lose all interest.

How does this apply to PU?

Picture you as a crow and the kid as a girl. Girls will want what they cannot have. It is built in all humans to function and opperate that way. Although the girl is so close to catching you, she cannot, everytime. This chase, it builds natural attraction. And she will always try harder to trying to get that "thing" that is not easily attainable. Why do you think married men are wanted by single women. It's because the women want what they can't have. Play the crow and you'll get girls rushing towards you. Remember to always give her hope or she'll think she has no chance.

NOW

Play the pigeon and you're also asking to be treated like the nice guy. There is no interest in getting something that is offered and always will be. If a guy came up to a girl and said "I'm here whenever you want to date me, I will wait here for that moment", do you think she really even gives a fuck, let alone will ever give you a chance at her (pussy)? Fuck no. So drop that attitude. Be a high valued male that does not settle for low expectations. Be hard to get (in some ways). Have social proof. And sooner or later, kids will want to start chasing the fuck out of you before you fly and take off.

---

The cat and the string

Now this one's pretty out there already but I thought I'd still add it in.
Picture a cat on the mat. You then place a ball of string infront of him/her only a feet away. The cat will try to get that ball of string but before the cat does, you pull it away from him/her. Now that cat builds motivation and confidence everytime it barely loses the string. It will try HARDER and HARDER to try and get that ball of string (only for so long). Once it gets it, it loses all interest and stops playing with it after awhile.

NOW

Picture the same cat on the mat and you place a ball of string 10 feet away. Will it even bother? No. It has no interest in things that aren't within reach. The cat falls asleep.

How does this apply to PU?

The chase is what builds attraction (as stated above). You let the girl chase you for a short time and afterwards, that's all the boast of attraction you will get to start your 'relationship' off with. AND she may get bored after awhile. But you keep that chase going longer (not too long) and keep it entertaining, then the reward when the ball of string is finally caught is even greater. The cat will play with it for a longer period of time.

NOW

When a female thinks you are too far from reach, she will just give up. So you don't want to do that. Or if the female has no interest in you, MAKE HER interested in you by moving that ball of string right infront of her. Control the string and you control the girl.

---

What's given and what's earned

If you've ever played a GTA game, you will know how rewarding everything is when you actually play the game without cheats. That pistol you stole after killing the police and going thru a 2 minute intense police chase. Or that sports car you jacked up from that fat old lady down in the ghetto. All these are rewarding and you value them because you earned them. You KNOW you will be sad if you lost them by being BUSTED by the police (and going to jail). All your EARNED possessions will be gone...

NOW

Playing the same game with cheat codes. You get the same guns, the same cars, and maybe even better ones... But at the end of the day, it is not the same value as the ones you have earned. You don't care if you end up getting busted by the police and losing all your sh!t because you know you can easily type the cheat code in again and get it all over again. AKA low supply in demand.

How does this apply to PU?

You cherish things you've worked harder at. You don't want to lose things you've worked harder to get.

NOW

Although you are getting the same thing, it doesn't feel as high valued because you know you don't really deserve it. If a guy throws himself at a girl, she doesn't feel like she won you over, at all. And therefore she doesn't really care if she loses you or not because there are probably other guys out there who will throw themselves at the girl just to get her to like him. So don't be easy. Make the girl work for you. You are the prize in the room.

---

Jealousy

Remember the time when you were a kid and you were with your younger brother? You'd see that toy on the ground but had no interest in it because it did not appeal to you. Also, it was not really "wanted" by others so you would care less. But then you saw your little brother pick it up and start playing with it. Now at this moment you got jealous because it is.. 1. Something you can no longer have. and 2. Something that is desired by others.... SO at this moment, you now want to play with the toy and fight over it with your younger brother.


How does this apply to PU?

When girls see guys who have no social proof or preselection, they do not care about them. The girls have NO interest in them. But when you see a hot girl liking that guy who was alone just minutes ago, then suddenly the girl gets jealous and curious. "Why is she talking to that guy" "What's so special about him" "I must get to know him now"... If girls like you, then OTHER girls will start to like you. That is how they function. It is something they can't control. Why do you think when the new IPOD TOUCH or IPHONE came out, you NEEDED to buy one? Because.. well fuck... everyone else was buying them. It's kind of a bandwagon effect, where if one does it, the rest does. They say 95% of the people in this world see and then do, the other 5% do first.

Why do you think a girl easily get jealous when other girls like the guy she likes? There is competition over you and she needs to seek your approval and win you over. Being wanted and desired will always add more cards in your hands.

---

I will add more later. Feel free to add any criticism or comments. OR maybe give me more ideas that I can add in here later on. Let me know if this helped.