Hi guys,

This letter is 7 years in the making, and has much emotion and need behind it, so if anyone would be kind enough to respond, I would be more grateful than able to put into words.

7 years ago, when I was just 20, I took a job at a deli after just moving to New York. I found out once September came along, that right across the street was a Jewish girl's college dorm, and because the deli was kosher, these girls would often frequent the establishment, and come to me for stuff. Every day, I'd see dozens of the 75 girls who lived just right across the street from where I worked. They'd come in in their pajamas at night, or right before or after a night out, all decked out and what not, and it was a MAJOR tease.

I had no game, and hadn't even heard of PUA. On top of that, I was a pothead and suffered from depression and anxiety, so I wasn't in the best shape for picking up girls. Here and there, I'd go out with one or two, but they were either the bottom of the barrel, or they were attractive but not interested after a date or two.

It was really a shame, because when does one get an opportunity like that? I was sitting on a goldmine and because of all that crap, I didn't capitalize, and I missed out big time. BIG TIME. Yeah, I became friends with these girls on Facebook, but that's about as far as it went, and they're all either married or not interested; I didn't make a good appearance.

Fast forward 7 years.

In one week, my store has put me in charge of a food kiosk, right there ON THEIR CAMPUS. All these girls will be new to me, and a whole new group of freshman are entering. This starts next week. To top that off, I don't use drugs anymore, I've been working out so I look much better, and I've finished school so I'll be starting a new job within a couple of weeks.

This is my chance to make up for the opportunity I messed up 7 years ago. If I can make up for it this time, I can not only make up for it, but I can redeem myself in my own eyes; I am still somewhat depressed and have anxiety, and one of the things I do is mull over failures and what not, and not succeeding back in '03 was a big source of sadness for me. I can turn that around now.

I don't have much experience in PUA, but I'm much more confident than I was back in the day. As I said, I've been working out, and I'm going to be starting a better job in a few weeks, so what I'm asking you guys for is help in regards to how you believe I should play these next few weeks until I start my new job and leave.

What would the PUA method of pulling some of these girls be? How should I handle myself day to day? What impression should I give while I'm there? These are young girls - college freshman - so they're easily impressionable and possibly even somewhat immature. Materialistic things will attract them (I live in a nice apartment now, free of roommates, and not far from their dorm, and I have the new job coming up, etc), and if the past repeats itself, every year brings a few girls in each class that are rebels behind closed doors. If I play my cards right, I can do this. I had a friend, for example, who had this job back in the day, and he was a pothead and found girls that would smoke with him (one of whom was very easy), but because he too, had no game, he never got anything out of it. I'd like to get something out of it.

I'd like to thank you guys in advance for any help you could offer me, and again, I'd be most grateful for any pointers or game plans anyone would be willing to give. This is really important to me. Thank you so much.

My word of advice... don't focus on getting laid, instead just focus on having fun with each interaction you have with these girls. I say this, because it looks like you're thinking about this way too much already.

You don't want to come off as try-hard... you could even be patient and build attraction overtime, since like you said, each girl will likely be returning.

First of all, thank you for your reply, but what should I do if not look to get laid?

Do I play it up as though I'm very confident (which I'm not)? Do I be "the friend"? Do I use opinion openers on them? What would you do?

I didn't mean that hooking up shouldn't be your ultimate goal, it's just that if that's all that's on your mind, it's almost impossible. Have fun with them, enjoy the moment, and keep your mind off getting laid. If you can do that, then I'm sure you will.

Confidence is key, work on your inner game.

Like I said, I'd be patient. I'd work on a few returning customers over time... making them laugh, finding things we can relate to (and using them each visit) - building attraction. I'd definitely be flirty enough so that they knew what I was saying wasn't just part of my job.

If you haven't already, I'd really suggest reading "The Game" or some other PUA books.

Again, thanks so much for your time and your help.

I agree with you, but I'm lacking in the inner game department. I've read the Game and MM and Magic Bullets, etc. Can you recommend anything that might help put me on the fast track? School starts Monday.

Thanks again so much.

MM is mainly for bars and clubs. Read The Attraction Code by Vin DiCarlo.

That's not the plan for the weekend! Thank you for your help too.

I suggest reading "Attraction Formula" by Paul Janka as well.

http://www.pauljanka.com/formula/

I think you are taking this whole thing way too seriously. Women are everywhere and they are all replaceble. Don't worry about "missed opportunities" because there will always be other opportunities.

A college campus IS a gold mind because they are usually filled with hot, drunk sluts. If you can't get laid in this environment not much else will help you.

Having props like a nice apartment and being a little older will give you an advantege over college guys living in dorms. If you are mostly just trying to get laid.. I say focus on volume and get as many phone numbers as possible. This way you can text these girls at your convenience and find ways to meet up with them and bring them to your nice apartment.

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Thank you for your input.

Not to sound difficult, but an above poster said to refrain from seeking numbers and asking out girls. I'm not sure if the Facebook option is a smart one; there is no doubt in my mind they are all on it, but I'm not sure it's a smart idea to start friending them. I believe it shows low value, but if they add me it's another story.

Also, what is it about Janka's book that you think is helpful to my situation? I ask only because I'm not familiar with him, though I've heard his name thrown around here and there.

Lastly, it's not the campus, per say (in terms of their dorms being there); it's just the school campus, so no drunk chicks that I'll be encountering. What I will be encountering is still quite interesting; remember this is a religious Jewish college, and so just like all religious schools, you have your religious girls making up the majority, but then you have the rebels, both open and private, who are also mixed in and have no problem being "bad girls" if their reputations wont suffer. I share this because I saw it as a pattern, year after year.

Again, thank you for helping me.

You should definitely get their phone numbers. You don't have to ask them out but you MUST get their number. This gives you more freedom on how to handle them. Without the number you have nothing. Facebook is pretty useless and really something for relationships that have already formed. I say get the numbers.. lots of them.

As for Paul Janka.. I suggested him because his approach is very simple and FAST. Since you have limited time.. you need something that works FAST. Not too much thinking, not too much props, not too much gimmicks. Paul is your guy.

Drunk girls are a plus but not a necessity. It doesn't matter if there are not drunk girls. You'll be fine.

Good luck.

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