Lately ive been having a slight problem. This summer ive been living life, work a bit bouncing once or twice a week and another job sat and sun mornings, so really my nights from sunday too weds are usually free. This is when I like to plan Day 2's or hangouts with girls ive already been seeing. I do the same Day 2 for all girls, and it works perfectly. Sometimes I guess i dont take into the fact lots of girls around my age work like crazy in the summer for school or other things, so doing the whole " hey im free tonight lets hangout" hasnt been working lately because its too much of short notice and its really hit or miss if a girl is free or not.

Im framing it as "Im usually busy , but tonight im not so im making time for you" and even if at an earlier date the girl agrees and wants to hangout, they have other responsibilites and cant. It seems the biggest thing im doing wrong is trying to hangout with them last minute or giving them "afternoon of" notice. I should probably at the start of the week, see when each girl is free and set it up accordingly. I always thought that would be me being too available, letting them decide when we are hanging out etc, but in reality i cant always call the shots when it comes to this. Then again maybe if they were alot more attracted they would make time but who knows?

How do you guys, who are getting regular new girls deal with this? I find its more with Day 2's rather then girls ive already seen, maybe thats because im in tune with what they are doing with their life and kind of know their schedule a bit more.

I feel like I have all these options layed out, but coordinating when to hangout with them is whats killing my thoughts of "true abundance."

Isnt always terrible tho, have a day 2 tomorrow, with a stunning bartender.