| This is a major problem with new players in the game. Lemme give you a few examples of ways to keep conversations rolling.
Stack Openers
Once finished with opener 1, jump into opener 2! Example:
dw3llz - Excuse me, which one of these colognes smells better to you
Hbs - blah blah, this one, that one
dw3llz - thats weird, ur the 1st one to say this one (i wont say why do u like this because its obvious, she likes the smell and she will infer to answer on her own)
Hbs - blah blah smells nice, its more "you"
dw3llz - alrite. while i've got you here, my cousin got cheated on by his gf. and now he comes to me asking if I think he should take her back. They've been steady for a long time now and I wanna make sure I steer him in the right direction, what do you think?
Transition
As simple as, "So how do you all know each other?" (then use their response to DHV some story about high school, or a really old friend, either way it works.
Transition example:
"How do you all know each other?" (enter dhv story phase)
"Wow, I just noticed something." "Whats that?" "You guys are pretty good friends aren't you" (enter best friend routine)
"Hey nice [article of clothing]. Me and my friend went shopping for something exactly like that a couple days back and she could not find it if her life depended on it. Where'd you get it?"
Roll Off
"Pleasure Meeting You." (And smile). More than likely you may run into this set as the day/night goes on. Truth be told, this was my favorite when I started, but now I find it's more important to create a spark of attraction and as soon as she gets interested, then roll off.
Most importantly it's about what makes you comfortable when your in the set. Practice these in front of the mirror (sounds qwerky but it works), muscle memory functions in the brain as well. I'd pick one of these and practice it for a week, then switch and practice that one until you find the one that works best for you.
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-dw3llz
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