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PostPosted: Wed Jul 28, 2010 9:11 pm 
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Yup so im a virgin. We all were once and now im gonna need some of you more "experienced" folk to help me out. Iv been gaming for awhile and totally changed myself from when I was a AFC. Really confident with women and you wouldnt know if i was a virgin if you saw me! :lol: ;)

Had plenty of chances before to have sex but I kept holding back as I said I would only lose my virginity to a girl I really like. Balls to that n im heading out tomorrow with my cousin who has hot friends and im gonna pick one and close. ;) Only thing that obviously that missing from my game is F closing and I really dont want to embarress myself for the first time as it could lead to a confidence knock thing.
Oh and if it affects anything, im not even 18 yet so il be having sex with girls around my age group. No Milfs. :lol:

C'mon bros and give me some advice about anything that I should know/do while in the sack. :oops: :lol:

And I promise il keep you updated.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 28, 2010 9:58 pm 
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just know what a clit is and how to use it.

thats the only thing you could probably learn without real experience.

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2010 3:08 am 
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read Daniel Rose's 'Sex God Method'.


Seriously. It can help with your outsideofbedroom game too.

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2010 7:27 pm 
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Don't expect to be amazing first time, everybody is crap lol.

Listen to KristallNachte's advice.

Also, try getting her to go on top, you'll probably last longer.


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2010 8:16 pm 
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Ok I'll bite. Nobody tell Chris Hansen that I am telling this kid this shit.

First. Use a condm. No pregnancies.

Second. Be damn sure that she is clean and STD free before you do this. If she is and you do this right I guarantee that she will go wild.


Ok it's as easy as ABC literally. After the foreplay and before the fuck go down on her and find her clitoris. Kind of meander your way to it... That is take about 5 to 8 minutes to work your way down from her lips to her snatch. The anticipation is key.

When you get her worked up enough put the tip of your tongue on her clitoris and....trust me on this...start writing the alphabet on it with your tongue. The movement will be unpredictable and erotic. Vary your speed making "d" slow and methodical and "e" quick and flickering. Extra points if you can pinch her nipples while you do it. Finally when you write the alphabet forwards and backwards while still using the tip of your tongue quickly and flick it up and down over her clitoris and apply GENTLE pressure. This will push her over he edge is she isn't already. If you feel you need to practice try turning a light switch on and off only using he tip of your tongue. Once she cums you have free reign to crawl on top of her and fuck her any way you please. It won't matter if it takes two minutes or ten. Try to finish within fifteen.

I must reiterate. Make sure she is STD free. Eatin the wrong pussy is a great way to get oral herpies.

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2010 8:35 pm 
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I feel like that's an advanced technique...

Going down on a girl is work in the first place, and trying to remember the alphabet forwards and backwards would make it feel like a complete chore and ruin the excitement of the moment.

I also would never go down on a ONS. You say to make sure she's clean, but how do you know in one night? Ask her? She might not even know...

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Remember that girls your age may not be very experienced either, so they aren't going to be terribly critical. Just take your time with the foreplay, remember that there's more to a girl's body than her boobs and pussy and rub/kiss as much of it as you can.

Since you'll almost certainly "finish" before she does... well, I have my own problems in that area but I've found that you can lie next to the girl after, hold her close and kiss while reaching down to "finger" her until she gets off. Look up some tips on that though... be slow and gentle, don't just finger her... massage her pussy and her clit gently and slowly. Be patient, it can take a while... but you'll feel better if you can get the girl off, regardless of your performance during the actual sex. They seem to appreciate it too...

(Alternately you can go down on her after (assuming you've used a condom, otherwise ewwwwww) but like I said I'd only do that for someone I was dating and felt close too, not just a ONS.)


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Foreplay is the key! Women prefer a bit of play before you stick your little man in them. Slip your fingers in her snatch (very gently) and start to massage the clit. Then suck and lick her nipples very gently (do this whilst you're still fingering her) and also massage her tities. Do all these things gently and she will start to moan until she is fully aroused for intercourse. Sex in definitely better without a condom but i would also pull out before cumming as you don't want to risk getting her pregnant.


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2010 8:59 pm 
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Use a condom. Pregnancy is not the worst consequence of unprotected sex, or even the longest lasting! Herpes is permanent, and AIDS is permanent until it kills you.


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dont just rush to intercourse!!!!! dont have too much expectations either it will be something you wont forget however you aint gonna be a porn star either!!!!


go through it like this ive turned this into a artform plus its simple and it doesnt fail: kiss, kiss her neck, start undressing her, kiss her breasts, go downstairs with your hands(OUTSIDE OF HER CLOTHES) to turn her on majorly you should be able to feel her getting wet, then put your hand in her clothing only touching her underwear playing with her pussy, take her skirt or trousers of leaving her knickers/panties on, part her knickers to one side the finger her then go down on her playing with her clit with your tongue slowly you could finger and lick at the same time, at this point she'll return the favor by undressing you then giving a blow job then at this point it should lead to intercourse, STICK TO MISSIONARY AND HER ON TOP. DONT DO ANYTHING YOU MAY HAVE SEEN IN PORN!

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dont just rush to intercourse!!!!! dont have too much expectations either it will be something you wont forget however you aint gonna be a porn star either!!!!


go through it like this ive turned this into a artform plus its simple and it doesnt fail: kiss, kiss her neck, start undressing her, kiss her breasts, go downstairs with your hands(OUTSIDE OF HER CLOTHES) to turn her on majorly you should be able to feel her getting wet, then put your hand in her clothing only touching her underwear playing with her pussy, take her skirt or trousers of leaving her knickers/panties on, part her knickers to one side the finger her then go down on her playing with her clit with your tongue slowly you could finger and lick at the same time, at this point she'll return the favor by undressing you then giving a blow job then at this point it should lead to intercourse, STICK TO MISSIONARY AND HER ON TOP. DONT DO ANYTHING YOU MAY HAVE SEEN IN PORN!

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Foreplay is the key! Women prefer a bit of play before you stick your little man in them. Slip your fingers in her snatch (very gently) and start to massage the clit. Then suck and lick her nipples very gently (do this whilst you're still fingering her) and also massage her tities. Do all these things gently and she will start to moan until she is fully aroused for intercourse. Sex in definitely better without a condom but i would also pull out before cumming as you don't want to risk getting her pregnant.
It's still very possible to get a girl pregnant if you pull out before ejaculating.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 01, 2010 7:52 pm 
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Well like I said, I would tell you what happend when I went out. And I can tell you nothing happend :( :shock:

Bloody cousin said she would take me out to a bar and bring along her cute friends but she said she forgot about it and phoned them last minute when they already had plans. So instead we went out along with her other friend who was free, a HB 0 (not even a HB) and had some things to eat. While we were there I decided to bust her balls alittle bit and practise my techniques. She was clearly into me, no surprise but I wouldnt poke it with a stick never mind poking her with Mr Nudge. :lol:

Soz guys but I went rajing at my cousin for being a dumb clutz and promised me we would go to a proper bar and get her friends to come within the next few days. Thanks for all the help and il be sure to use your advices during this critical part of my pua career. Il continue to tell you the rest when it finally happens :)


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LOL@ Practising your ABC when you're sposed to be getting down to sex.

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