Hi, i'm a junior high school student,Ive never had a girlfriend much less went on a date, and never really kissed a girl,but I wanna get in LTR with a smart gorgeous unique quirky girl... new to the game, plan to be a true pua, just one problem. I got the bad case of the "AA" approach anxiety. When I see a girl that I find beautiful I can talk to her make friends, but the minute I even think about making a move or even a (BOLD) flirtatous act, My heart starts racing and my body stops me from doing anything.. And everytime I have made a move it always ends up something awkquard and I feel like the stupidest of people (this is only talking about woman I DO know, i don't think I'm ready to make moves on girls i DONT know)...so..Care to help a gentleman out on tips?

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Im a junior (highschool) who wants to feel a unique companionship with a beautiful, intelligent,different and quirky girl... But I don't got the balls or the game.. Help!

Same exact situation bro. I'm also a Sixteen year old Junior in High School. I can easily lie and say im a pua pro, but I'm not, But I may be able to help ease your thought kinda of how it did me. Read the Game for motivation and searcht he web for tips and shit. www.seduceinseconds.com was what really thrusted me into this, and if you have the balls try the newbie mission. I have a bad case of A.A. and I'm still trying to over come it, but it seems like you have girls that are friends, (unlike me) so he even if they are not HB10's you could still practice talking to girls that really helps that you have female interaction. Any question that I might be able to help you with you could PM me if you want/see my thread on "In high school wanna become a PUA"

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I'm new to the game, just striving to get better.

Please excuse my thread making. I'm starting completely fresh and need to limit the ammount of rejections whilist I'm starting.

Oh yea, seduce in seconds is a really great site, the 4 main points idea is useful, I actually want to try it.but I need to let go of this "approach anxiety bullshit" know like any way of letting it get out of my system? Like tests or something.

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Im a junior (highschool) who wants to feel a unique companionship with a beautiful, intelligent,different and quirky girl... But I don't got the balls or the game.. Help!

I'm not too much older than you but you seem a little similar to me when I first started down this path. I JAAAMMMEDD at (was great at) the friend zone thing.

High school and college is a weird dynamic because those times you go for something and it might be a "mistake" or "awkward" seems to have longer lasting affect bc it's people you see everyday.

If I were you (I was... and still not perfect at all but I see this stuff does work and can change you) I'd do this:

1. AA can only be solved with... approaches. (Also soem NLP and INNER GAME BELIEF) Do w/e you have to do... and it doesn't have to be for a # or a kiss. Take it in shorts steps. 1. a name 2. age. 3. where from... then say bye...
Hell, opinion openers are so easy... next time at lunch go sit with those hot seniors and ask.. "Ok... so we've been having this debate and only girls can solve it... who was better N'Sync or backstreet boys?" easy... they'll laugh... just deliver it well with good tone and body language

2. The friend zone is not entirely bad because when you start realizing how to change this will be useful. It sounds like to me you have some beautiful friends... they don't like you, but they are friends... I'm in the same boat and for the most part these girls in the short term will remain just friend (just have to accept and move on for now). Here's the kicker: BEAUTIFUL GIRLS ALWAYS HAVE BEAUTIFUL FRIENDS. They will always introduce you to their friends and then life begins to become much easier. Be friends with the ones you don't like (GROW YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE) and play with the ones you do... which leads me to

3. Have fun and be playful... start making fun of those girls and even those who are your friend. Don't accept hugs, tell them they have to EARN them. (You'd be surprised how hard then they'll try to touch/hug u it's really funny). Don't be malicious... kind of like you would a little sister. Sometimes they'll get mad at you but it's often not because of what you said but something deeper is going on with them... (YOU WONT LOSE FRIENDS BC OF THIS). Best of all you don't have to think making fun of her is overly flirtatious yet it's doing exactly what you want.

4. Eat up everything: From daygame website with Andy Yosha to forums on how to hit on girls at dances... READ. If it's important you, you'll learn as much as you can. (Off the top of my head look up Kino Escalation ladder and Gambler's free Stealth Attraction video on youtube). Maybe then buy some things that interest you... a lot of this is reiteration.

But if you're as competitive as me the best way to kill AA is to make it a game. Of your bros who can get the most numbers... show off... who gonna have the balls to go sit down at the table with those hot senior girls... Those have been the best times I've excelled through AA... and once your in the real world where your actions aren't etched in stone like High school... this will become easier.

Good luck... hit me up if you have any more questions... you're starting at a great age.

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No F-Close needed

Yah man, im 17 and have been gaming for like 4 months. I'd love to talk to u about this stuff and gaming in highschool. U can FB me-Ben Weir

Honestly i don't even game within my school because it just messes things up too much. But i sarge like crazy all around the city. Was funny, yesterday I opened a set and in the set was a girl i had K closed, a girl i had number closed and another girl whose friend i had hooked up with....sooo funny. At that moment i realized i had over sarged my area . But yea man, hit me up, i would love to talk to another kid about this stuff.

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Bitches be trippin

Hey guys, most of you are teens, which means what I'm about to say DIRECTLY affects you.

My name is Saint Pixie, and I am "the foremost expert on teen-game." - Jason Cross (co-founder of PUA Aristocracy). I am 16 and have been in the game for 7 years.

If ANY of you, have ANY questions, AT ALL - feel free to message or email me! I will reply and try to help you through whatever your problem or situation is, completely FREE of charge. I do this to help, not to profit.

Teenagers looking for a solution - follow me.

Happy Gaming

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"[Saint Pixie] is the foremost expert on teen game." - Jason Cross (Founder of PUA Aristocracy)

hey my friend... I'm also new to this community but I thought I might share a little thought with you that might help you:
Whenever you get AA again just let this one tiny thought pop into your head... a little question you've got to ask yourself:
'what can you lose?'... I know it sounds simple and stupid but think closely about it...
You got nothing, you are going back to nothing if you screw it up... what have you lost? exactly! nothing!... that's the deal... when you got nothing to lose why worrying about losing something? when you do not give it a chance you have already lost, so make your move and get a chance to win! you'll never get rid of AA (heck I nearly shit my pants when i see an HB walk into the room or spot her somewhere and i know i ll force myself in to her set! ), it's just the more you ignore this fear, the more you'll learn to deal with it!
just keep in mind that you CAN ONLY WIN...
hope i could help a little bit!

Heyy, welcome
I'm on the same boat as you, every time I try to make a move with a girl I like I freeze and never do anything, then she finds another guy because I was too slow!
It is even worse with girls I don't know or barely do, I hate this AA and fear of rejection.
It is good to know I'm the only one with this problem and that you can see how the other newbies start to improve their social life, overcome their problems and become a better person. That's why people like this inspire me because every PUA started with this kind of problems and became better at socializing not only with girls but also with all the people around them.
I hope you overcome your AA problem. Best of luck and see you around mate.