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Yeah, but isn't it still better to be rejected and get that little experience, than not taking the shot at all? Assuming IOI's put you in a more positive frame anyway.
I agree with that! When you're asking yourself if you should approach her because she was smiling at you, you should do it! Otherwise you wouldn't know if it was just a polite smile or really an interested.
Experience and rejection is the best way to improve your game I think. My attitude is to take chances when they arise. It makes you more confident and improves your microcalibration.