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If you think you will, you most likely will. Think of all the interactions between men and women happening every second of every day. All the emotions that go with it, fear being a big one of them, but guess what? It's still happening. People are having sex, kissing women, and even just cuddling with women. Your no different from any other guy in this world, so why should you deny yourself one of the great pleasures in this world?
I know what Im saying isnt going to give you confidence and sadly....noone here will give you the magic words where you'll become more confident over night but look back to what I said earlier. It happens everyday, guys that think exactly like you go out and try and make things happen. Note the word, TRY. If you are, then great. But if your not, how can you ever expect it to happen if you arent willing to take that risk?
Thats all anyone can ever ask you to do, any more importantly thats all you can do for yourself. Dont feel rushed into anything your not ready for, you DO want to sleep with women though right? Or else you wouldnt be here. That fear is a big one, but you know as well as I do that it has to disappate from your mind or you can lead a very unhealthy sexual life. If I can give any advice about this, wait for the right woman. There's no rush to bag the nearest piece of ass near you. Be selective and be a high status MAN, and that girl will come. Take it at your pace, and realize that it happens everyday. People but aside their biggest insecurities when they are willing to have relations with the person of their choosing. If there was something I was insecure about and I was thrown into a room full of women naked, of course I'll be like HOLY SHIT too. But you'd be amazed at how those fears dissolve with the right woman.
Interaction is a fun thing man, but only if you make it that way. It happens everyday, and with the right girl it can be wonderful. Your young so you still have more than enough time to work on this but you know that It needs to be worked on. Noones getting laid without getting near a woman physically....and if you figure that one out you NEED to let me know cause Im fuckin UP learning all this if there's an easier way.
Nice post my friend, very true
If you don't try, you'll never know. I haven't even tried because I chicken out like OP. And like you mentioned, I have a very unhealthy sex life at this point. In terms of being dependant of masturbation and internet porn
@ Re.Active: I sent you a PM but it's not in my sent item box. Hopefully you have received it.
Good luck
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