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A typical modern day man typically going out spending, comsuming going on porsche forums talking to the same robots about shite.

The answer is simple.

You have no spirit.
Spirituality is key.
When was the last time you did an act of kindness for anyone.
Prayed or visited a church etc.
Ignore that shit. YOUR LIFE is about YOU, and there is no GOD, or fate, or spirit or any other such crap. I'm not saying treat people like shit. Be a good man, it will reward you, be kind to people. But do it for yourself. Do what gives you joy. Do what will make your future better, and not just your present.


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Being smart is: proving your own right
Being wise is: seeing the right of others.




It sounds better in dutch, but hopefully you get the point.
I used this yesterday during a conversation with someone who I usually butt heads with. And it worked wonderful, it's a wonderful practical tool for changing the way you interact.
"The person who attacks me is a living human being. He exudes life force. When he attacks me, it is his life force that is concentrated and swiftly bearing down on me. Life force does not oppose life force; therefore, I do not oppose the attacker's force. Those who love do not destroy. So I step aside and permit the attacker's life force to pass through. As he comes flying by, I give him a nudge to help him get to where he is going more quickly."




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PostPosted: Sat Jun 12, 2010 3:59 pm 
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I met a few girls that are friends of friends and went out to lunch with them, and was baffled at how stupid these women where and had no grasp on how the actual world works. Their biggest concern was which new flat iron to get. I'm 22 and girls my age don't have a clue, but think they know everything.

They probably don't think they know everything, people only talk about things that they do know about otherwise they risk the chance of looking a fool. I wouldn't talk about rugby or claim to have any worthy opinions on it because I know nothing about it.

People just seem to annoy me, they don't have a drive to learn how things work. From things like:
The law, they get a ticket and assume there is nothing they can do about it. I have never paid a single ticket in my life.
Relationships: they rather talk about how much their life sucks rather than doing something about it
Taxes/investments/401k: Not a clue

So it would annoy you that I'd rather just pay the price of a small ticket instead of finding out how to avoid the charge? Whatever man, I'd rather just pay it and forget about it and go and have fun. Call it lazy but each to his own.

People love moaning, and not doing. If people moan excessively just don't hang around with them

I don't have a clue about investments or shit but neither do I care. I'm 19 and full time student. Don't see why this would annoy you.


I'm interested in how to start my own used car dealership. I've read books, dmv codes, and the requirements. Anyone who I talk to says it's easy to open your own store, when in reality they have done zero research on the subject, and can't tell you the first requirement of opening a shop

So just explain that it isn't, job done.

I'm 100% honest with people, and this hurts me alot. Although people have come back to tell me I'm right, and they're sorry they doubted me, but still think I'm an asshole.

I'm quite blunt too so I know how you feel. Some like it, some don't. Tbh it sounds like you get annoyed far too easily!
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Trackjunkie you could have a mental disorder, it sounds like exactly what I have/had with your problems and analyzing and such. Im no psychologist yet be a couple more years till my degree but you could have borderline personality disorder.
you do not seem to be able to emotionally connect to most people.
you can read a person's weakness very well.
you analyze people.
you seem to see things in black and white with no gray-this is called splitting
these are some things you seem to have that are characteristic of bpd. 2 out of 100 people have this disorder.
look it up for more info and decide for youself


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TO EVERYONE

as i always mention; you live in your own reality

what i mean in this instance is... trackjunkie has come on here to ask advice as he is unhappy with who he has become. he wants to change.

TO TRACKJUNKIE

have you heard of Neil Strauss' ECV routine? run the first part on yourself and be 100% honest to the questions asked.

believe me when i say; outside of the confidence pickup has given me, the ECV test has been the single most important thing i have taken from this community.


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i looked up bpd, i have a lot of the symptoms, although no medication is recommended.

I have just become aware of this, I can accept it and move on. I've made it this far, I don't think this will stop me.

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these are some things you seem to have that are characteristic of bpd
An essential symptom to bipolar disorder is a manic or hypomanic episode, trackmania has not mentioned this.
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look it up for more info and decide for youself
No. You don't diagnose yourself, if you feel like something is really affecting you and it might be a mental illness you go see a psychiatrist.


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 11:30 pm 
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Through my journey over the last 2 years I learned the things to say and get women in bed. And when it rains it pours.

Then I had a girlfriend, which on the surface looked great, she was an emotional wreck half the time. After I explored other options, she never trusted me, and I couldn't have cared less about her.

I had all the power, things were done on my terms, I genuinely didn't care about her.

After that I started putting my own success as my number one priority.

And now co-workers see me as an asshole who only cares about his own success, I have no interest any going out with them to drink, party, or participate in non productive activities. I was at the store today, and these 2 girls were standing behind me as I was going up the escalator, and mumered "asshole!"

Wtf, they have never talked to me before, or even seen my face, and they know I'm an asshole.

I've become a monster, sure I have nice things that make me happy (Porsche 911) But at what expense?

I met a few girls that are friends of friends and went out to lunch with them, and was baffled at how stupid these women where and had no grasp on how the actual world works. Their biggest concern was which new flat iron to get. I'm 22 and girls my age don't have a clue, but think they know everything.

People just seem to annoy me, they don't have a drive to learn how things work. From things like:
The law, they get a ticket and assume there is nothing they can do about it. I have never paid a single ticket in my life.
Relationships: they rather talk about how much their life sucks rather than doing something about it
Taxes/investments/401k: Not a clue

I'm interested in how to start my own used car dealership. I've read books, dmv codes, and the requirements. Anyone who I talk to says it's easy to open your own store, when in reality they have done zero research on the subject, and can't tell you the first requirement of opening a shop

I'm 100% honest with people, and this hurts me alot. Although people have come back to tell me I'm right, and they're sorry they doubted me, but still think I'm an asshole.

I guess I'm like Dr. Drew on loveline without the ph.d, but an asshole with little patience.

I suppose this more of a cry for help than anything.

Words of wisdom, or advice I am open to.
This whole post sounds like another suburbanite WASP whining [no offense]

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step 1: buy a journal
step 2: write stuff like this journal
step 3: when answer hits you, take action
step 4: stop crying for help

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"The person who attacks me is a living human being. He exudes life force. When he attacks me, it is his life force that is concentrated and swiftly bearing down on me. Life force does not oppose life force; therefore, I do not oppose the attacker's force. Those who love do not destroy. So I step aside and permit the attacker's life force to pass through. As he comes flying by, I give him a nudge to help him get to where he is going more quickly."
Just curious, who is this quote from? I'm guessing either founder of Aikido or Tai chi, but I'd like to know which.

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werp I did not say bi-polar disorder, I said bpd: borderline personality disorder. and no I cant suggest you diagnose yourself but I looked at myself seen I had many symptoms of this disorder and now can at least control the issues I had by acknowledging I had a problem.

Also think about this, a bunch of men are on a site who are here bc they have had many issues in life, such as insecurity, emptiness, lack of self, lack or relationships, social avoidance, poor social skills, or another thing that has kept them from getting what they have wanted from life usually women.
At a place like this a much greater percentage of people here have mental issues and luckily on this journey to become a pua u work on your inner game and work on yourself, becoming a true/best self and these things will help a person who has issues become better in many ways.

Honestly look at this site it is a self help site and underneath the picking up women is some real stuff where people can work on themselves where a person can better themselves as long as they stick with it. This stuff is free therapy from people who've had the same issues.


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You're 22. Loosen up.


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so i met a few girls got a few numbers, rekindled old friendships and sure it feels nice, but I miss doing what I enjoy...

Like going to the gym, going to bed at a decent hour, not drinking alcohol.

However I did meet a great girl, we hung out twice, i thought things were going well she spent the night the 2nd night we hung out, I had her panties off, and she said no condom, no sex. Being on my streak of no tail I didn't have any. So no sex.

She's 24, i'm 22, she has 2 kids, but shes fun to be around, down to do whatever, and I could say anything I wanted to her.

We made plans to hangout thursday night, and she never answered her phone or anything, I do recall her telling me she was going to vegas, but I can't remember when exactly.

although i can't call her/text her until she text or calls me, and then I have to ignore her for an equal amount of time.

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Just to some up the advice you've been given so far (and slip in my own).
Try to change your situation or location, you're not happy with how things are, so change them.
See a therapist if you think you need to, everyone can benifit from seeing a therapist, even if it's not about the stuff you've mentioned.
It sounds like your trying to qualify yourself to yourself, making you sound better in your head to you.
Enjoy your life man, you only get one (probably).


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