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PostPosted: Mon Jun 07, 2010 10:12 pm 
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This summer is starting out really great.
My best friend recently became single and finally I have a wingman that really knows how to be a wingman.

Anyways. This friday and saturday my 4 best friends went out.
Two of them are in LTR but they really know how to party.
Since they are in relationships they act natural very good .
We where shaking down a crowded dancefloor, just fucking killing it.
Probably had 15 girls around when I pulled off my belt and started
limbo contest (thank this forum for it).
(This isnt a fieldrapport I just need you to know what happend)

We had all the socialproof we needed. My friends who has GF:s was playfull but kept distance and so did I and my single buddy.
Our group was approached by two smoking hot HB9.
They didnt do the limbo but they smiled and saw we were
just 4 guys having fun. Perfect scenario pretty much.
My buddy tries getting close on HB9A and gets rejected.
Not a big deal cause he saw it comming and ejected smothly.
HB9A then starts grinding me a bit. I hold her for a bit, then I sligthly push her away and turn to me friends. She comes at me againg and grinds me some more.
So I touch her a bit more and we dance some.

Then everything got fucked up.
Im standing there thinking this girl is to hot for me.
I just frooze. Didnt know what to do.
In my heart I just knew she could never be mine.
After a couple of minutes the HB9:s left.
I could have gotten any other of the girls standing around since it pretty much looked like I blew her off. But it felt like it didnt matter.

Im not gonna lie to you guys and say I usually pick up HB9+.
Im in the scal of 6-7 and sometimes an 8.
Once I got a 9 but we were both drunk and the whole thing was just foolsmate.
Before I knew anything about PU.

If I would have approached this girl she would have rejected me aswell.
Im sure she just wanted to get the satisfaction of me hitting on her.

This feels like shit.
I had the socialproff
I did push n pull.
I introduced her to my friends.
She was grinding me

Then she fucking took of and I didnt see her again.

The feeling of being in over my head makes me feel sad.
I cant think of what I should have done.
Whats the deal with really really beuatiful women?
How do I get them?
How do I not feel like Im unworthy?
Im gonna stand in front of a mirror tonight telling my self Im the fucking man.
I dont know what else to do.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 08, 2010 2:20 am 
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Inner game, much?

Seriously man, you may be able to pick up tons of women, but you can still feel like shit inside.

Affirmations aren't going to do it. One possibility is NLP, but, until you get results, things will not change. Basically, keep improving. Forget the incident for now.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 08, 2010 3:13 am 
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If you've got inner game problems, think about reasons why you're awesome. It can be anything, like hobbies, career, skills etc. Any time I have any doubts, I remember that I'm doing exactly what I want in life and gives me some brass balls.

This isn't exactly long term, but it's definitely helped me become much happier with myself all the time.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 08, 2010 7:19 am 
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I think this is a classic.

Im not worthy, im not worthy.

Your HB 9 picked up on that.

O.k. so you had solid social proof, dance floor game was very good and then...........
Balls.

Get a pair.

o.k. it bit harsh.

But i have to ask a few questions which you could answer.
I don't know where to start on this really.

Do you know the club well.
If so was the target always in the club. You know club rat etc.
Their favourite game is to get the best dancers to qualify themselfs to them.
You made a move, you qualified, she is happy, she is off.
You should off de-selected her FIRST and then grabbed any of the other girls.

You should of grabbed another girl and said look at this attention seeking club rat.
say lets dance real close to maker her gealous.
It always works.

Escalate heavy with the 6 win over all her friends. I really mean this.
You win.

Forget this HB 17 SHIT.

To start with was she your type.
Do you think you were her type.
She might have been shit in bed ot thick or whatever?
She just wanted do demonstrate that she can get a guy to respond to her in front of the other girls. She Won, you lost.


Now all the other girls think you are vain and hung up on looks.

I would have won the 6 and all her friends.
Been relaxed all night.


Oh yeah.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 08, 2010 10:58 am 
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STEP THE FUCK UP


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