I've known this girl my whole life. There were times in high school we were going to hook up but I either didn't close or it was bad timing whatever. She's hotter now but now I know how to work the game however she still frustrates me a bit.

I don't constantly game her by any means since we go to different schools, but now we're home for summer and wouldn't mind nailing her.

Quick background: Spring break- tells me I look good and that I've really matured, in a good way.

She finds out I'm visiting her school for a weekend, she IMs me all excited. Immediately comes to the apartment I was in to say hi. She comes to party with me the second night, aalllll over me. Lots of kino, flirting, going really well. Only problem is, I know she's been known to be touchy and flirty with guys when she goes out but nothing winds up happening (she's a tease). I wind up leaving her to go to another party and never find her again that weekend.

Now we're home she hits me up to visit her at work, I tell her no but she can visit me, she doesn't answer. We IM or text here or there tryin to find things to do at night or just bullshitting quickly. I see her the other nite, unfortunately got real drunk and dont remember much besides she was asking me to drink with her and we were talking. Don't think I was trying too hard b/c I don't like to give her too much attention.

She just texts me again asking to come visit her at work. I told her I'd consider it. I'm not about to be ok yea! and go visit her, that's just retarded. I'm not sure how to handle this, what should I say/do next time she asks me to visit her at work or just handle her in general.

thanks

update: she kept asking me to come visit I said it's tempting but I might have other plans. She asks what, I told her my friends and I might be drinking and the only way she could convince me to come is if we could drink where she works. She says yea her and I can drink in the back...

Give her the attention needed in order to get your wicked way, if she's a total flirt with all guys, then she isn't relationship material.

Have fun.

from what your saying she does sound like a flirt, i agree with chellios...give her the attention, usually with a girl like that shes probably easy but at the same time they look for one certain aspect of a person(you) that stands out in order to make a move rather than the whole picture.

so supprise her with something fun and sexy and flirty. just dont go against her flow cause odds are she probably has 20 guys she enjoys flirting with on the side

enjoy man

My opinion, to get a girl like this quicktime, you'll need to push and pull, let her know your there, be fun and have a laugh, then for one day no communication, you want her to know your into her (not loved up) BUT, don't get too deep, you'll fall into the LJBF zone and/or she will play you along like your on string.