and how to show her that you are?

I'm always scared to flirt sexually because I don't want them to get offended or think I'm a creep. However that seems to be the only way for them to get the picture that you are interested.

Also what is the best way to pick up a girl in a small setting with a bunch of friends? (buddys gf's friend)

you cant be scared to flirt, flirting is the whole point!
it creates sexual tension which will keep you out of the friend zone


common ioi's i recognize are:
playing with hair
batting eyes
fixing clothes(not always but usually an ioi)

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Read David Deangelo Double Your Dating
This book first gave me a general idea of how female minds work etc, its not a full book that will teach you step by step what to say or do but it will give you an idea.

Also you wouldn't belive how many women are confortable talking about sexually things.

Seriously go buy double your dating read the book it should take you a few hours and you'll be one step closer and this wont happen over night either practice is key.

Cheers

What does ioi mean?

Also what about eye contact. How should I look at her and what do her reactions mean?

Anyways to give her hints that I am interested?

I will "buy" that book...

You certainly are "new to the forum" aren't you? :p IOI's stand for Indicators of Interest, the little signs and things a girl does when she's interested in you. As the above poster said, these include her toying around with her hair, fixing herself, laughing at your jokes, playful touching, etc.

Eye contact? Um...yeah. Look at her when you talk to her. Don't creepily stare in her eyes or anything, but give her your attention. You can look a bit aloof and detached (some girls are into that "mysterious stranger" thing) but don't straight up roll your eyes and look away from her.

IOI = indicator of interest

and double your dating is a good book, it should answer all your ?'s

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