| Hi Vagrant,
Well man, actualy i think that i never went out with the exclusive purpose of sarge. Always go out to enjoy myself and see what happens. Normaly something happens. But i never consider myself someone that forces situations, maybe i am wrong, i dont know. I only aproach in clubs or bars when i have a positive eye contact or smile. Basicly when i get an invitation to aproach. So i work alot in non-verbal communication. I never go on cold, always build something before. If you know what i mean.
I've always been doing this all my life, but now i have names for it. loool
I feel very hard to aproach on cold, because it put's me in a, somehow, needy position, like i am there to be judged. So i always prefer to build, before, whether is for my behaviour, atitude, eye contact, expression, social domination, whatever.
So to be honest i think i've never went on sarge in the pure sense of the expression. But normaly i go to some pub's in george st, kings kross, Ivy, Chinese Lundry, hyde park (lol), supermarket, whatever.
Maybe we should meet just to chat about this pick up thing.
* english is not my original language.
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