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i just begin my jorney...

Lol,wow,you're asking the $ billion question!!

You're sought of looking for the magic bullet also(lol).

Just be the way you were when she was first attracted.

Guys get lazy(as women do too)after a while in an LTR.

Dont get lazy and stop grooming yourself,stop brushing your teeth,etc.(lol).

Im serious here.This wont ensure that she will never leave you.But being the same attractive guy like when yall first met is the best bet.

When yall first met,you were customed to wearing flashy items(peacocking)with spiked hair which drew her attention.

Then after you'd gotten the girl,you abandonned what worked-the spiked hair,etc.

And now you cut off all your hair,start dressing too reserved...then she loses attraction.

Im not saying you cannot change.One should change and be diversed in style but dont stray too far too long from what attracted her.

It still doesnt answer your questions I know...

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Lol,wow,you're asking the $ billion question!!

You're sought of looking for the magic bullet also(lol).

Just be the way you were when she was first attracted.

Guys get lazy(as women do too)after a while in an LTR.

Dont get lazy and stop grooming yourself,stop brushing your teeth,etc.(lol).

Im serious here.This wont ensure that she will never leave you.But being the same attractive guy like when yall first met is the best bet.

When yall first met,you were customed to wearing flashy items(peacocking)with spiked hair which drew her attention.

Then after you'd gotten the girl,you abandonned what worked-the spiked hair,etc.

And now you cut off all your hair,start dressing too reserved...then she loses attraction.

Im not saying you cannot change.One should change and be diversed in style but dont stray too far too long from what attracted her.

It still doesnt answer your questions I know...

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Now active on YT again with PUA, Red Pill, Manosphere content:
https://youtu.be/tj5rnL_qKfM

In short, be your best self. Something I think a lot of the guys that get into PUA don't consider is that they almost always start with MM or something similar that basically requires you build a character or gimmick for yourself to pick up women. That may be great for one nighters, but that is not going to hold a LTR. Eventually you will forced to show her who you really are, so be sure she knows who the best you is before getting into a real relationship.

are you asking how to MAKE HER LEAVE YOU, or how to keep her?

coz the answer to the first one is easy, just dump her

the second one, well I agree with the guys here but I must add another little (yet crucial) detail.. keep you're own space and time, don't ALWAYS be in each other's asses, you must let her have her little world, and keep you're little world as well... Live and let live, let her be her best self and be yourself.

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

All in all,there's no sure shot way of ensuring that a girl wont leave you.

We can do things to minimize the chances(as I and the other posters have suggested),but at the end of the day,it's still a toss up.

Plus,your frame does seem a lot needy as if to say,"you're so not trying to ruin shit with this gf".

That exact mind set will be what'll ruin it for you.

So lighten up and dont worry too much about loosing any girl.

Leave the worrying to her.

You've already gave her the power by even asking that question.

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