so, there's a girl i was hanging out with a bit...we work together, which i know right off the bat makes this a red flag and can lead to quite akward situations...but bear with me. right away there was an obvious attraction...after a night of drinking i crashed at her place and she actually told me flat out "i really want to bang you" but had some excuse as to why we should wait. i think i took this mild sign of attraction and clung to it and tried way too hard to make it happen, in turn pushing her away. we hung out a couple more times and fooled around a little but i could never seal the deal. i think this might be a good start for me seeing how i am akward as hell and these days can rarely get past the whole making out and going our separate ways situation...even if i cant get with her anymore i would at least feel good about getting some tension started up again...but is it even possible, or have i just completely ruined any chance i had by showing too much interest?

Hey Canadian Carl

I'm not sure. From reading the situation, showing too much interest may have played a part. But then again, I do believe there are some variables you can never quite understand.

Did you use some of Mystery's Last Minute Resistance lines?

If this girl or any other gives LMR, and says "we shouldn't" or something, he suggests saying "baby, you are right. This is really naughty. I especially shouldn't do this....." and then kiss her on her neck or something.

If she still continues to be uninterested, you just leap off her, turn the lights on and ask if she wants something to drink and act like it isn't a big deal.

(Disclaimer: I am only 2 months into my pua journey so look for other more seasoned opinions as well).

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