Heya Guys,

I was meeting this Girl quite often the last couple of weeks, she is in a new Relationship for a few months.. i know her for a long while..

so we have been meeting and i was gaming her C&F,P&P and KINO Escalation of course.. she was very Attracted and let me Escalate until a certain point.. and from there she was constantly giving me heavy Shittest when i tried to escalate and blocked my touches.

Even tho i was working with FreezeOuts and mastered her Shittests, the Escalation didnt move on. So i have sent her home almost every meeting, after she kept blocking my touches and holding back my escalation..

Funny thing is, she still called me after every meeting and wanted to meet again, i knew for a fact that she was attracted but she didnt let me escalate..

after like 4 meetings where i couldnt move on with the escalation, i decided to tell her the following out of the mood, i didnt think about it, i just felt that i had to say it.

Tony: look, where are too diffrent, we dont want the same
HB: why, just because i dont want to make out with you ? i only do that with my friend..
Tony: Its ok, we do not want the same
HB: So what we gonna do now ?
Tony: we wont see each other ever again..
HB: Cant we just hang around and have fun, but dont make out ?
Tony: Im only available as a Man, not as BFF
HB: i dont see you as BFF, i see you normal..
Tony: I do not have/want/need Female Friends
HB: Make an exception
Tony: why ?

Thats all i can remember, i also told her stuff like, that i enjoyed the time with her, that i had alot of fun and also that the meetings kept repeating and it was leading nowhere and that its a waste of time..

Ever since i told her this, we had absolutley no contact for like a week now.. i kind of regret the decision, since i really liked the company of this girl, it was fun to hang around with her but i was missing the sex and i wouldnt be happy with just a Friendship..

So guys, tell me your thoughts..

Do you believe that i did the right thing to tell her this ?
Should i keep the Freeze Out and wait for her to get back to me, or next this girl forever, or try a regame ?

i think it's good that you said exactly what you want, u where brutally honest, wich is a good thing, i'm not sure she's going to come back thu, if she does youre in...

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ive seen here the day after i told her this with her BF, she seemed very pissed at me, even tho i never ment to make her angry at me, i told her like i would tell a friend.

Also what i do not like about the Situation is that its up to her now to decide if there is going to happen anything..

I dont like giving Girls this kind of power.. now my question is if im the first to contact her again, lets say after a couple of weeks or months and just get to meet with her so i can regame.. would that even work ?

If im the one making the first step, after declaring my rules, would that drop my frame i set before ?