I'm a Junior in HS.Earlier today I went to the movies with a female "just friend". We're watching the movie while talking silently and having fun. It was the first time us two have ever even gone anywhere other than school and we didn't consider it a date. Everything was going great, plenty of laughter the whole time, yet no physical connection. I decide to practice on her. Blah blah blah. Kiss close. Nothing awkward..
Later that night I go home and talk to a friend with benefits, or whatever we should call what we have,we really love each other but don't want a relationship SPAM. we're tlking playfully and randomly she tells me she kissed 2 guys in one day and I tell her I kissed Alexis. Neither of us get mad, instead she gives me the "let's just be friends". She says not because of anything I did, but because she feels like a slut, and that I don't deserve her, eh, average bs. I act playful and not serious about it to deplete awkwardness and we get some laughs, but we decide to hang up and talk about it tomorrow. What should I do to just make her stop being so stupid and childish? On the phone she kept telling me how much she loved me and wanted us to talk like we still do but not escalate physically because she feels like a hoe. I don't believe in that. So I pretty much was trying to convince her how dumb she sounded to me. That's very simplified and it sounds like 6th grade stuff, but that is really what hapened. Lol